Getting off my arse and looking for somebody to share life with. I am not looking for casual play in a club full of strangers but that does not mean that I disrespect those who are liberated, hedonistic and enjoy that scene. It is simply not what I am about. I seek romance, a best friend, a partner and a Dominant (note the order of priority). She could be a sadist but that is not what drives me. I am guarded about myself but I will open up to the right person; a whip or a cane will not be the best way to get me share my secrets. My mind is the key, engage that and you engage me. She may want to hold my key, if she captures my mind then she captures that part of me too.
I have been submissive for as long as I can remember but it was only after a divorce that I was able to explore my submission and discover what makes me tick. I am still discovering that and unsure myself so do not worry if you find me difficult!
As the photographs show I love boots and fetish wear. Boots are my weakness, my kryptonite so to speak and I have to confess that I am a "sucker" for them ;-)
I was recently asked if my fetishes define me and the answer is no. Actually, I think that a well worn suit or blouse and skirt can be just as hot, wait that is a fetish too I guess!!