About me
Interested in:
I’m looking for:
- Friends
- Kinky Dates
- NSA (no strings...)
- BDSM Lovers
Description
37, as of 2025
Negative tests as of 6/11/25 - see photos [or not as app won't allow it]
Beard optional frankly. it grows; it comes back. happy to allow fun on the spot with styling facial hair whichever way for kicks.
Happy to use and *** when warranted.
Happy with softer.
I think I verge towards Gentle Dom.
Kinda just exploring atm.
Seem to be attracted to femininity chiefly so unsure if that makes me bi when I don't feel bothered as to what someone's packing. Not explored.
Some experience with some things, mostly just feeling disconnected from potentially like minded types and interested to probe that curiosity.
Think I've heavily graduated towards a father-figure persona since even early adolescence.
still working out what all the different terms mean to give others a better understanding of myself.
Love dogs and cats.
The outside; especially making fires (safely) to sit by.
Trying not to let the pace of society rush me, as a neurodivergent person.
There's no such thing as apolitical. Only privileged.
Anarchist 
Metalhead - recent years I've been soaking in Ambient Black Metal
militant Autistic/ADHD (self)
on Fe.tlif.e as 'Belinus'
(Currently, my driving work seems to be taking me north of London, as well as inside, a lot)
Limits
My roles & archetype
Fetish.com gives you…
Fetish.com is like an appetizing smorgasbord in Haywards Heath with lots of hot guys to meet up with. Have a look around first if you prefer to see who’s around, or if you know what you want, search by selecting the right category "Kinky Dating”. Nobody stays alone here for long! Fetish.com has tons going on!
It's not like they want to. It's the culmination of many factors. A good example of why Feminism is good for everyone, not just women.
Weed? I get the impression that can help
Ffs man. Not the place. Jesus
Never broken
Negative tests as of 6/11/25 - see photos [or not as app won't allow it]
Beard optional frankly. it grows; it comes back. happy to allow fun on the spot with styling facial hair whichever way for kicks.
Happy to use and *** when warranted.
Happy with softer.
I think I verge towards Read more… Gentle Dom.
Kinda just exploring atm.
Seem to be attracted to femininity chiefly so unsure if that makes me bi when I don't feel bothered as to what someone's packing. Not explored.
Some experience with some things, mostly just feeling disconnected from potentially like minded types and interested to probe that curiosity.
Think I've heavily graduated towards a father-figure persona since even early adolescence.
still working out what all the different terms mean to give others a better understanding of myself.
Love dogs and cats.
The outside; especially making fires (safely) to sit by.
Trying not to let the pace of society rush me, as a neurodivergent person.
There's no such thing as apolitical. Only privileged.
Anarchist
Metalhead - recent years I've been soaking in Ambient Black Metal
militant Autistic/ADHD (self)
on Fe.tlif.e as 'Belinus'
(Currently, my driving work seems to be taking me north of London, as well as inside, a lot)
I'd simply ask the question you want to ask. No use fretting or worrying. If you want to see about exploring that side again, (am assuming it's taken a pause) then just bring it up again. And whatever the result, continue enjoying a new friend. No need to complicate it.
That's the word. Slave didnt sound right but couldn't think of another
I see it a lot in the deluge of messages I see plastered over walls and photo comment sections on here.
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