Married Dom looking for some fun to get away from the stress and suffocation of a failing marriage. Open to things progressing if I meet someone compatible.
Me: The gentle Dom. Soft and gentle outside the bedroom but with a very strong dominant streak inside.
Shaved head, reasonable looking, not of model quality but I didnt fall out of the ugly tree either. A bit of a paunch but working on it. Quite muscular underneath due to past jobs.
You: Naturally submissive, 18-35 (up to 40 if you really catch my eye). Size 12 or below. Looks arent too important its your openness to experience Im looking for.
Us: A natural Ds fit that allows us to play knowing we trust each other with an end goal of you becoming a TPE slave to me.
I'm a naturally private person and being married means discretion is paramount, hence no face pic but am willing to supply one when we have been talking for a while.
I'm not in London but visit regularly and will be able to create space for long weekends every 4-6wks.
I'm on Alt as Freedomtaker2017 with confirmed ID for your reassurance I'm both real and not about to do anything that would jeopardize your safety or my liberty. I'll be confirmed here shortly.
As I say I'm quite the gentle Dom outside of the bedroom but have a very strong Dominant streak within it. That doesn't mean you should take my soft side to mean you can get away with anything though!
Into Risk Aware Consensual Kink. Rough sex, consensual non-consent etc. I also have a big thing about hypnosis and have begun studying this so anyone who is willing to experiment with this get in touch. Looking to eventually mould you into 247 fuckmeat. Passive and accepting of my abuse.
Safe and sane all the way to that point though. It can only happen in time as our mutual trust deepens. I'm not for one minute going to expect or suggest that happens overnight.
Limits and safewords respected. Although in time, as you begin to trust me, I'd hope for them to drop away and for you to allow me to explore you fully and without reservation. I believe a true slave should only have the limits set for her by her Master.
My personal limits are blood, scat, permanent marks or harm, kids and animals. I will never share you with anyone or do anything in public either.
Aftercare is very important to me. Both ways. I quite often get Dom drop after a particularly heavy session and I'm well versed in caring for subs experiencing a drop as well.
I don't expect you to jump (or be manhandled) into my bed straight away. Call me old fashioned but I prefer to get to know my partners first. The mind is the biggest erogenous zone after all. I'm also quite sapio-sexual and looking for someone who is my intellectual equal outside of the bedroom. I have a strong left-wing political slant and love setting the world to rights over a glass of wine deep into the night in front of a roaring fire.
I don't roleplay or do pre-written scenes. Im not a Daddy, a teacher or anything else. Im not an actor in a play. Frankly I find that whole side of the scene a rather nauseating cliche. I'm looking for the real deal. The raw and visceral experience of two people connecting on the deepest level possible when their innermost desires are fulfilled.
I've been burnt in the past and I'm a little cautious with my heart right now as a result but Im very real and genuine. Whilst I'm not necessarily aiming to leave my wife if my one true submissive came along I would be open to things progressing further.