I am happily married and am selectively active in the swinger lifestyle community. I am intelligent, attractive, fit, active, flirtatious, and passionate. My submissive needs run deep. There is a lot of depth to me so I am looking for a Dominant force in my life that is strong enough to handle me as I'm not the stereotypical weak minded submissive. Once I submit though, my submission runs deep and is pure. My ideal Dominant needs to be intelligent, fit, attractive in my eyes, enjoys life and loves to laugh. A mental connection is just as important to me as physical chemistry. I am looking for consistent communication, mental stimulation and BDSM real time play. If you feel that the mind is the most underutilized erogenous organ in the body, you have already earned bonus points!