Updated 05/03/2019


Happily married to “TameGuy” in an Open Relationship seeking friends and fun.

I’m here to meet some new friends with or without benefits and to smoke a few cigars/cigs with. I’m considering the pipe.. but got no idea where to start.. can you help me out?

Hubby doesn’t like the smoking thing so unfortunately I can’t accommodate and I’m bound to the yard for my nicotine fixes #grim

I’m not gunna lie.. smoking of any kind (except marijuana) and only just recently bike leather outfits really turns me on.. I’ve been smoking since a very young age.. ask me how old I was as a conversation starter.. you’ll probably be shocked.. or perhaps not

The smoking fetish isn’t compulsory during a meet but if you smoke it could be something we could both enjoy even if you’ve never done it before..


I’m not into the leather scene, fisting, this sub Dom crap or any of this master slave thing.. it does nothing for me at all. I’m solely here to meet new mates, and possibly some fun on the way.

I’ve not had sex for a very long time and I think one of the reasons is my weight.. I’m 17.3 but I’m trying to lose weight.. I don’t feel comfortable with my body at all and I think I lack confidence because of this.

The hubby has given me a free card to use whilst I’m working away so a bit of fun could well possibly be on the cards.. but I want to get to know you first.. I’m not and never will be a slut and just shag the first thing that comes along.

I’ve only recently spoke with my husband about us having an open relationship so it’s all a bit new to both of us.

Do not assume just because I have this new pass from the open relationship talk that your guaranteed to get some action because you probably won’t.. I’m very selective of the people I meet.

I’m extremely shy and nervous meeting people for the first time.

Please don’t send me a friend request straight away because it will automatically be declined.. I’d like to get to know you a bit first..

I am on the road a lot with work all over the country so I may not reply straight away.. but if you send me a message.

Those who don’t reply back after a few days I will assume your just not interested and I’ll remove you so we don’t cross paths again.

Those who reply back with one or 2 words wont get very far with me..

Smokers really turn me on so get in touch and we will take it from there.

If your solely here to chat and have no intention of meeting me then can you please be honest from the start.. I’ve already been let down once and I’m gutted.. one thing that really pisses me off are time wasters!

What do I want?

At present.. nothing heavy.. kissing, sucking, wanking but must include smoke.. if I feel confident and comfortable with you I may take it to the next level but I’ll ask when I’m ready.



Desires and Fantasies
Anything that involves smoke play