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Threesome and jealousy
Thanks everyone for amazing replies! Especially Master Lib for a very thought out and educational input, I'll probably be contacting you later for more advice.
You've all given me a lot to think about and reflect on
Threesome and jealousy
So this is not exactly BDSM related but I didn't find a fitting place for it, sorry 'bout that.
My question is if anyone here has who is a majorly jealous person has also had a threesome and would be willing to share how it went (either here or through PMs). I'm in a very loving and committed Read more…relationship with major BDSM elements, and we both really want to have threesomes (MMF and MFF). My issue is that I know I get very possessive and jealous, which is why I've never tried to bring other people into my sexlife.
But for the first time of my adult life I'm in a mature and communicative relationship and I'm thinking it might actually work out to have another girl or guy join us.
Any thoughts? :)
My question is if anyone here has who is a majorly jealous person has also had a threesome and would be willing to share how it went (either here or through PMs). I'm in a very loving and committed Read more…relationship with major BDSM elements, and we both really want to have threesomes (MMF and MFF). My issue is that I know I get very possessive and jealous, which is why I've never tried to bring other people into my sexlife.
But for the first time of my adult life I'm in a mature and communicative relationship and I'm thinking it might actually work out to have another girl or guy join us.
Any thoughts? :)
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Gunnsa Thanks everyone for amazing replies! Especially Master Lib for a very thought out and educational input, I'll probably be contacting you later for more advice.
You've all given me a lot to think about and reflect on Thanks everyone for amazing replies! Especially Master Lib for a very thought out and educational input, I'll probably be contacting you later for more advice.
You've all given me a lot to think about and reflect on
You've all given me a lot to think about and reflect on Thanks everyone for amazing replies! Especially Master Lib for a very thought out and educational input, I'll probably be contacting you later for more advice.
You've all given me a lot to think about and reflect on
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· 16.06.2019 19:31:30
Deleted profile Good morning. Great topic for discussion! So let's ask the question about what is jealousy? Jealousy can be deemed as a emotion but in my eyes jealousy is not and emotion but actually a energy that is vented in a negative way. The negative energy is created when someone experiances fear. This fear Read more… is generated by the fear of 'loss' or being 'replaced' that when your partner is becoming intimate with another person a is deemed as a natural response, to think that your lover or mate will decide that you are no longer needed and will be replaced by that new person. This is where communication and consent is crucial. Before engaging in sharing, set some boundaries and rules to what is and what is not OK. Have some secret words that you can keep saying during the session so that you are both aware that each other feels safe and OK with what is occurring. Call a saftey word to slow the session down if needed and just take the first time slow. If you don't feel ok with kissing then don't. If you don't like the idea of your partner performing oral then don't. Also remember that things will go wrong and that is OK too. Have some compassion and reflect on it after the session (If it's not too much). Also discuss how you want it to end. Do you still want to hang out after the session or leave after. And always carry out the important debrief after the session to discuss every detail. What worked, what didn't, how you felt, etc. When you feel secure and are communicating correctly the energy that is felt when sharing someone you love is incredible and estatic. Taking that energy that was once used to create a jealousy mind is now used to create a new sexual energy of love and togetherness that will end up bringing you closer. There is such a thing called 'Sperm competition' which is the competitive process between spermatozoa of two or more different males to fertilize the same egg during sexual reproduction. Competition can occur when females have multiple potential mating partners. And this probably the energy that is felt. I would take some time to look this up if you get the chance. I am also happy to talk more about how you can turn the negative jealously energy into a beautiful sexual energy that can be shared and adored. xX Master Lib Xx
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16.06.2019 11:10:29
RhinoandGinger Can you separate sex from love/relationships? If not, don't do it. Can you separate sex from love/relationships? If not, don't do it.
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· 10.06.2019 18:53:50
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