Personal details

Gender Man
Age 38
Status Single
Height 183cm
Weight 86kg
Body shape Average build
Eye colour Blue
Hair colour Brown
Hair length Short
Beard Shaved/no beard
Orientation Straight
Ethnicity Caucasian white
Origin UK
Pubic Hair Part shaved
Body hair Hairy
Zodiac signs Aquarius
Glasses
Tattoos
Piercings

About me

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Description

Hi, Single male who identity's as a switch but lean toward the sub side of kink. I have many interests which until recently I've not been able to explore. So I looking for a switch/mistress to discuss things with, I don't know my limits but have tried a few things so feel free to message me.

My vanilla interests are, going to the gym, walking my dog, improving my cooking, reading comics and novels, and looking for new adventures.

Fantasies

My interest in Fetish and kink dates back many, many years, recently I've had my first experiences of being dominant and it was surprising how much I enjoyed the feel of having a woman under my control.

That being said, my belief is that to understand what one desires you have to understand both sides of the equation and as I'm returning to this site to try and learn more things.

I especially want to become more skilled with rope, my expertise was rudimentary to say the least, I'd also like to experience being dominated to understand what the sensation is like, other things I'd like to explore is e-stim electro play (both giving and receiving).

Fetish.com gives you…


Fetish.com is like an appetizing smorgasbord in Cheltenham with lots of hot guys to meet up with. Have a look around first if you prefer to see who’s around, or if you know what you want, search by selecting the right category "Kinky Dating”. Nobody stays alone here for long! Fetish.com has tons going on!

Hornyrob2701
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  • 27.12.2018 12:46:02
  • Male (38)
  • Cheltenham
  • Single
A newcomers guide to finding a partner.

I concur with haroldcecilgeorge's comment this a very insightful article, having returned to this site after being in my first 'kink/fetish' relationship, I forgot what a minefield it can be, and trying to stand out from the crowd can be a little daunting. I've determined that it will probably take Read more… some time, and also that I need to be true to myself and not try to be someone I'm not. A lot of what you have written backs up my thinking. So Thank you.

Hornyrob2701
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  • 27.12.2018 12:37:54
  • Male (38)
  • Cheltenham
  • Single
How do I?

I understand your sentiment very well, my last girlfriend was very submissive and it was my first occasion of being dominant, which I enjoyed. Unfortunately things didn't work out so I'm back to square one. Just this time I have a much clearer idea of who I am what I want. Take a look at Read more… BDSMtest.org, this may help you to determine what interests you and what doesn't. If you want to chat with others there are plenty of other ways as detailed in eymblacksheep's post. Or if you just want to have a respectful talk about things drop me a message, I am not someone who dives into the 'I want to be your dom' Trope. Good luck!

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  • 24.12.2018 16:49:37
  • Male (38)
  • Cheltenham
  • Single
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  • 24.12.2018 14:21:14
  • Male (38)
  • Cheltenham
  • Single
What types of kinksters are you hoping to meet here on Fetish.com?
I'm hoping to find interesting and friendly people to talk with, share experiences, and hopefully gain new ones
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  • Male (38)
  • Cheltenham
  • Single
When did you discover you were kinky? Tell us about your journey through kink and BDSM.
I can't honestly remember, probably in my early teens. The internet helped expand my knowledge and I've learnt about the various aspects of kink and BSDM, which only made more interest in it greater as time went on.
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  • Male (38)
  • Cheltenham
  • Single
What was your first kinky experience? What did you learn from it?
My first kinky experience was on a date with an ex girlfriend it was actually our first. We had chatted for some time and met up for a meal in a pub and I had told her in advance that I would 'Pleasure her' while she had dessert in the pub. Sure enough she enjoyed her cheesecake very much. I Read more… learn't that seeing someone being told what to do, then doing it because they like being 'Told' what I wanted was a turn on, for us both.
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  • Male (38)
  • Cheltenham
  • Single
What qualities are most important for you in a relationship?( BDSM, kinky or vanilla)
Respect.... In BDSM, and in life you need to respect the other. Their limits, wishes, desires, need for space when necessary. And have open communication with each other always. This I beleive will allow the best result in life.
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  • Male (38)
  • Cheltenham
  • Single
Tell us a bit about your kinky lifestyle. Do you go to fetish clubs and munches, are you in a 24/7 relationship...?
Currently I'm single and not in a relationship, I've not had the opportunity to go to any clubs or munches. But the idea certainly intrigues me.
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  • Male (38)
  • Cheltenham
  • Single
What BDSM skills do you have (i.e. rope bondage, play piercing, etc)? What are you interested in learning more about or get better at?
I've gained some skill with rope bondage, but there is still room for improvement. I've used some harnesses, floggers, crops, and paddles which were good experiences, and also improvised with household objects such as bungee cords and exfoliating gloves. On myself I've used a humbler, sounds, a Read more… prostate plug, and cock pump, as well as self bondage. I became adept at tease and denial. I what to improve my rope bondage skills and discovered that You Tube has a number of interesting videos on the subject. Electro play has also always intrigued, both giving and receiving.
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  • 24.12.2018 14:21:14
  • Male (38)
  • Cheltenham
  • Single
D/s: Dom/me or sub? Top or bottom? Caregiver or little? Owner or slave? Do you switch or are you unsure?
I suppose I identify primarily as a dominant, but with the desire to switch. My belief is that to understand how to get the best from BDSM you also need to understand what is like to be on the receiving end so to speak. There are fantasies I have in which I'm being dominated, but I won't divulge Read more… them unless asked.
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  • Male (38)
  • Cheltenham
  • Single
What turns your kinky brain and body on?
Intelligence, a woman who knows what they want and who they want it with, A soft voice. Erotic Writing, Oiled bodies, sweaty bodies, looking at someone tied helpless by my hand, hearing them moan.
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  • Male (38)
  • Cheltenham
  • Single
Tell us about your kinky fantasies!
I've always wanted to pick up a woman at a gym, who is fitter and stronger than me, then turn her into my submissive and let me tie her up and bring her to the edge, then leave her there. Also I'd love to try outdoor bondage, and water bondage.
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  • Male (38)
  • Cheltenham
  • Single
What was your most memorable kinky experience?
When I did mummification on my ex, she was covered in cling film, and I put a remote controlled vibrator in her then used it for the next hour bringing her closer, and closer, until she was begging me to let her cum.
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  • Male (38)
  • Cheltenham
  • Single
Are you out or in-the-closet about your kinks, sexual orientation or gender identity? Why?
I am straight, no question. I have never desired another man, but have absolutely nothing but respect for members of the LGBT community.
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  • Male (38)
  • Cheltenham
  • Single
Do you find talking about sex and kink easy or difficult? Why?
I find it easy to talk about sex and kink, the difficulty is knowing the right people to talk about with. I suppose as I'm comfortable in knowing what I like and enjoy it just makes it easier to share.