Deleted profile I find my most honest conversations with my husband is when we are driving and I feel more comfortable. I told him straightforward what I wanted. At first I wanted him to take control of everything which wasn't really realistic. He said he would try it but I just took him by surprise.
I told him Read more… how I felt about it and why I wanted to try it. To be honest we've had more honest conversations since I brought the subject up then we've ever had in the last 7 yrs we've been together.
BDSM is about honest communication .
So go somewhere with him that makes you comfortable and talk to him upfront about it

eyemblacksheep I think if you feel you don't want to come out with the full package - just tell him you enjoyed stuff you've already done with him and would like to do it again I think if you feel you don't want to come out with the full package - just tell him you enjoyed stuff you've already done with him and would like to do it again

Deleted profile You could say the girls at work were talking about it, or you read an article , if you could let him think it was his idea that would be brilliant , maybe say something like , loved the ice play do you want to try more or something else ?
Be warned though not all guys (or girls) can be Dom/Domme, so there might be some trial and error involved You could say the girls at work were talking about it, or you read an article , if you could let him think it was his idea that would be brilliant , maybe say something like , loved the ice play do you want to try more or something else ?
Be warned though not all guys (or girls) can be Dom/Domme, so there might be some trial and error involved