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Personal details

Gender Man
Age 64
Status Not single
Sexual position Versatile
Zodiac signs Pisces

About me

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Description

I started my interest as a Dom, and then a Sub wanted to learn how to Domme. So quite simply I let her use me! Well it led to me loving being dominated and suffering all kinds of challenges. I was still Dom so I became Switch but then got into a fantastic Sub relationship with a very experienced Domme. Loved it and became deeper and deeper into the scene. Now I will try anything, including possibly with another man.
I enjoy pain, humiliation and those situations where you have a choice of pain moving one way or pain moving the other !!!

Fantasies

To meet up with someone to share my kinks. A female to use as a slave and explore pain, or for her to use me to explore pain !
For a male to use and humiliate.

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Jay221
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  • 18.10.2018 21:39:26
  • Male (64)
  • Darlington
  • Not single
Jay221
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  • 01.05.2018 9:54:41
  • Male (64)
  • Darlington
  • Not single
Jay221
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  • 12.02.2018 10:06:01
  • Male (64)
  • Darlington
  • Not single
To meet up with someone to share my kinks. A female to use as a slave and explore pain, or for her to use me to explore pain !
For a male to use and humiliate.
Jay221
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  • 12.02.2018 10:05:59
  • Male (64)
  • Darlington
  • Not single
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  • 12.02.2018 9:51:35
  • Male (64)
  • Darlington
  • Not single
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  • 08.01.2018 14:28:54
  • Male (64)
  • Darlington
  • Not single
Jay221
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  • 15.11.2017 15:38:32
  • Male (64)
  • Darlington
  • Not single
How did you get switched on to Fetish.com?
I was looking to fulfill my need that had been long ignored.
Jay221
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  • 15.11.2017 15:38:32
  • Male (64)
  • Darlington
  • Not single
What types of kinksters are you hoping to meet here on Fetish.com?
I want to meet anyone who is really interested in BDSM. I'm not bothered about titles and 'badges' only if you can dish it out or take it. I am as happy with a newbie as a well experienced masochist or sadist.
Jay221
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  • 15.11.2017 15:38:32
  • Male (64)
  • Darlington
  • Not single
When did you discover you were kinky? Tell us about your journey through kink and BDSM.
I discovered my kinky side when I was young, long before I found couple sex.
I found I was a masochist when I was maybe 9 or 10. I loved to read war torture books and master bate as I read of the magneto spinning and the wires clipped to nipples making the suspect jump and scream.
Jay221
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  • 15.11.2017 15:38:32
  • Male (64)
  • Darlington
  • Not single
What was your first kinky experience? What did you learn from it?
I think it would be solo masochism where I used a vice grip on my nipples whilst outside in the open by the hen Hut. This was followed rather unwisely by falling naked head first into 4' high nettles. After 5 minutes I realised I might have made a mistake!!
These early stirrings soon became my Read more… greatest desire and led to many fun situations as I grew into my teens.
I had one of the horse girls crawl naked across the big barn floor with her nipples tied to two reins. I tugged and pulled as she crawled, her screams and yelps turning me on. Then I whipped her with a leather trace her hands tied up to the beam above the stable door. It was such fun to see her dance.
A few years later I had the smell girl naked though now 7 months pregnant, her belly swollen and her tits much much bigger.
She was ready for anything and I was going to give it all to her. We were outside in the stable yard when I made her strip out in the open. Then I tied her foot to the ring by the drain. She was tense and nervous until she saw me bring the power washer out. Then she screamed !
Freezing cold water at 160 pounds pressure in a thin Lance. I stook back and started on her plump body. The water deformed her flesh making her ass and tits bounce and swing.It must have been painful as she screamed as the water hit her. I managed to shoot her ass and then with her sat in a big puddle I worked her nipples and her Clit reminding her of how that huge lump had to come out of that hole! A great deal more ending with her being forced to crawl and then almost swim in the slurry tank. Before she came out I pushed her head under for a minute, she emerged brown and ship covered gasping for air. As she did so I pushed her down again ! Then she needed another hosing.
Jay221
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  • 15.11.2017 15:38:32
  • Male (64)
  • Darlington
  • Not single
What qualities are most important for you in a relationship?( BDSM, kinky or vanilla)
I think the most important thing is real honesty. I don't think you can survive without the trust that this brings. Also for me I think a good sense of humour is essential. Being a Dominic or Sub does not always come easy. I'm sure we'e all experienced that moment just as the big reveal is due when Read more… we desperately need the loo or we get cramp. Or when there is material failure when a weighted clamp slips off her nipple and lands or your foot!
Jay221
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  • 15.11.2017 15:38:32
  • Male (64)
  • Darlington
  • Not single
Tell us a bit about your kinky lifestyle. Do you go to fetish clubs and munches, are you in a 24/7 relationship...?
I used to go to a magnificent club which has now closed. I was in a 16/7 relationship ( we had to go to work) Now I am 8n a very loving vanilla relationship and I really miss S & M.
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  • 19.10.2017 15:23:32
  • Male (64)
  • Darlington
  • Not single
Shocking! Who likes to play with Electric?

I love TENS but find its not strong enough much of the time.
I also use the insides of one of those fly seats but still weak.
I'd love to be tortured, safely with really big shocks making me scream.
I love descriptions of someone jolting and going rock solid. I also love to play on nipples with Read more… electric, just a bit scared of over doing it!
Anyone with proper electrical experience come and fry me !

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  • 20.09.2017 9:47:05
  • Male (64)
  • Darlington
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  • Darlington
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