I am LGBTQIA friendly, curious and I'm looking to have my first queer/lesbian/bisexual relationship.

I am looking for an open long term primary relationship with a mature, self-assured SINGLE (unattached) dominant woman or Domme Daddy. Someone to call my own who I can love, cherish and adore. Someone who is very comfortable with me having multiple relationships with all types of M/F sexual orientations. I am open to consider being part of a poly household IF we are starting one together.

I am also looking for permanent play partners if you are:

~ preferably local to LA
~ a submissive bi girl or guy - NOT a switch
~ a submissive straight guy - NOT a switch
~ a switch bi girl
~ a D/s or M/s couple looking for a third

I luv to make new connections. I'd like to hear from you. All of my "Ideal Person" preferences listed below apply for my desires in any new play partner also.

I believe sexy begins in the mind. I am very intuitive and therefore selective about who would be a good fit and I am very particular about my partners. I wish to see your face pics. I get a vibe from seeing your face (please include one in your email to me if you choose to not have one in your profile, thanks).

I am a cis woman. I identify as a pansexual submissive with a preference for a Domme as my main relationship. I also like to switch. My experience is mainly domming bi girls in FMF scenes. Not into extreme age play, I just like the monikers. I am NOT looking to be in an M/s relationship at this time.

I have played in many different kink situations and I have enjoyed all of them. I had more than a few scenes with my last Daddy co-topping male subs/sissies/bois. I enjoyed this side of me a lot. So, I am learning the ropes playing with my Domme side and being served. I currently have a slave-in-training and I have a separate profile for this identity. If you're interested, just ask for my profile handle.

I would consider being part of a poly household under the right circumstances for me (to be discussed). I am not a jealous person.

I don't like labels, but I'm borrowing one from a SF porn star on an HBO Real Sex episode cuz she seemed a lot like me: an aggressive, sex positive slut. Seeking and finding someone you have that chemistry with... that connection makes everything soooo much better.

I come from the swinging lifestyle (since 1995). I am generally seen as a Unicorn in the swingers world - slang for a single, generally bisexual female that participates in the lifestyle. Referred to as a "unicorn" because they are so rare. Occasionally, I will go with a partner but I like seeing what trouble I can get into all on my own.

The bdsm full-on lifestyle started in 2005. I have also been an adult industry worker in the past. I like making others happy with sexual pleasure cuz frankly I am good at it and it makes me happy to give back.