Still not finding #28. Oh well, I'm good with the others...

I'm still not finding #20. I'm not sure what I'm missing. Mostly I've got little idea what I'm looking for.

This feels very sketchy to me. You have to go with what works for you. As one person has said, it could be an outright scam, but even so. If you've not even met, you've been told all the preferences of your Mistress, and you're new to the sub scene, "obtaining you as her slave" is a huge flag Read more… for me.
A wise move is to meet someone at some place like a coffeeshop. At least at first...

I haven't found it, I see some people saying that they found it on mobile, but not on desktop. Not sure if people on desktop can find it?

This sounds like something which makes a load of sense to run from. In *no* role in a BDSM relationship should consent not be primary. At all times, even in simulated non-consent anyone should feel they can call an end to the scene, or slow it down, or push it forward. Whatever is the right Read more… thing in the moment.

I think that this can range rather widely. I've seen a lot of different stuff myself, so I think it all comes down to communication and consent. Work with each other, find out if you can find a mutual understanding and be in the same sort of space, and go for it, or if it can't work, then don't.

I think it probably depends on who they are. It seems like it can vary rather widely...

Little, in a similar situation. I'd be pretty OK to talk with you. I think you should be able to message me. Though there may be some levels that would be needed to do stuff with that.