I STRIVE TO BE A VESSEL OF LIGHT AND LOVE IN THE WORLD. Maybe that sounds a little abstract or arrogant,but where there's light there's clarity-you see things as they are. Who wants to walk through this life with shades on-seeing things that aren't there or falling cause you didn't see what was right in front of you. You feel me?Sure there's room for fantasizing &creativity. Oohh the fantasies I can create!But there's a place for fantasy&a place for keeping it real. And LOVE-Love makes you smile from the deepest part of your soul&makes you shine. Love is..God exhaling the spark of life at the moment of conception. Don't we see love in the eyes of a newborn? Love is..free of fear,anger& gets thick&it gets heavy,cause everything you strive for comes with its tests.So when it gets heavy..I mean really heavy, I do whatever I need to do to lighten up and get back to my center-I breathe deep,sing,dance,talk to my best friends or just get very still and listen to what's inside&if I hear nothing or can't stop my own inner word noise I ask God for guidance & know the answer will be delivered..when it's time for me to understand-cause I know at the center of my being,my TRUE ESSENCE-is LOVE.Just a little about me...

Desires and Fantasies
I'm looking for a man who is confident in himself and secure with who he is. He is proud of his strengths and accomplishments and is actively working on turning his weaknesses into strengths. There's no reason to expect someone else to just accept negative characteristics. Anger mgmt issues, excessive jealousy, disrespect,etc are not emotional expressions I'm interested in receiving or sharing.He needs to take pride in his appearance and keep himself strong and fit. Age is no excuse for letting yourself knows how to prioritize his life and take responsibility for his choices. He is open to change and learning new things. Someone who is mature enough to embrace the meaning and depth of the words commitment and focus. A man who has an active relationship with God regardless of the 'ism'.A man who enjoys sharing mentally, physically/sexually, emotionally, spiritually-that means giving and receiving-expressing and enjoys his own interests and doesn't make me the sole source of his joy. A man who understands that he must love, trust and respect himself in order for the foundation of love, trust and respect to grow between two people. You can't recognize what you've never experienced within yourself