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  • 09.02.2020 12:14:30
  • Male (41)
  • Bromley
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icon-wio Kinkystraig403 created a topic in FemDom & Male Submission
Certain times why do I like having my mouth used and pain inflicted
New to all of this but wondering why sometimes although I'm mostly straight I enjoy having my mouth used and being controlled? Like never thought would enjoy being spanked or my nipples being used roughly and things attached to them. Do you think it's the thought of knowing it's turning the person on, Like one person enjoyed flushing my head down the toilet which may sound weird but it really turned me on?
eyemblacksheep
eyemblacksheep I was just about to type almost the same as Miss Tillysue wrote - but - yep, sometimes, don't beat yourself up over what you enjoy... it distracts you from enjoying it.
But yes, in good play - it can be a turn on to know you're turning the other person on and that that can work because you want them to be enjoying it - so - maybe - you might do things you don't necessarily enjoy for their enjoyment... figures :) I was just about to type almost the same as Miss Tillysue wrote - but - yep, sometimes, don't beat yourself up over what you enjoy... it distracts you from enjoying it.
But yes, in good play - it can be a turn on to know you're turning the other person on and that that can work because you want them to be enjoying it - so - maybe - you might do things you don't necessarily enjoy for their enjoyment... figures :)
LikeMissTillysue · 20.11.2018 12:29:24
MissTillysue
MissTillysue We can sometimes get a bit hung up on the whys and wherefores of the things we do, probably because they are way outside what is considered normal by the mainstream. Just accept that these are things you enjoy and you are certainly not alone in that We can sometimes get a bit hung up on the whys and wherefores of the things we do, probably because they are way outside what is considered normal by the mainstream. Just accept that these are things you enjoy and you are certainly not alone in that
Like · 20.11.2018 12:20:40
MiztressD
MiztressD You used the words 'use and control'. You've pretty much answered your own question!
Sounds like you find humiliation and degradation a turn on. Why you do though is a question only you can really answer, there are many possible reasons.
However, I wouldn't dwell too much on the why do I question. Accept that you DO find these things enjoyable, and explore.. You used the words 'use and control'. You've pretty much answered your own question!
Sounds like you find humiliation and degradation a turn on. Why you do though is a question only you can really answer, there are many possible reasons.
However, I wouldn't dwell too much on the why do I question. Accept that you DO find these things enjoyable, and explore..
Likeharoldcecilgeorge, MissTillysue · 20.11.2018 11:24:18
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  • 13.05.2018 14:37:16
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  • 11.03.2018 3:29:43
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  • 11.01.2018 6:25:07
  • Male (41)
  • Bromley
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icon-wio Kinkystraig403 created a topic in Body Fetish & Body Mod Forum
Shy guy (which I'm sure you have heard all before)
But love (and I don't use that word lightly) really rough nipple play, spanking and being controlled. Just looking to chat, explore and hopefully enjoy.
What do you all love?
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Switchymishie
Switchymishie Restraints (giving and receiving)
Light / moderate pain received
Lots of pain given
Knives
Wax
Choking
Kissing
Fighting
Growling
Biting
Scratching
Sensory play
Switching between domme and sub
Fear play
Face slapping
There's a lot more it's just would take forever to list it all Restraints (giving and receiving)
Light / moderate pain received
Lots of pain given
Knives
Wax
Choking
Kissing
Fighting
Growling
Biting
Scratching
Sensory play
Switching between domme and sub
Fear play
Face slapping
There's a lot more it's just would take forever to list it all
Likesuxspussyasslotmore · 12.01.2018 13:35:05
eyemblacksheep
eyemblacksheep I love all sorts - sploshing, feet, watersports.... dishing out pain... sensual play. I love all sorts - sploshing, feet, watersports.... dishing out pain... sensual play.
LikeSwitchymishie · 12.01.2018 0:06:06

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