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- Events & Places
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Description
5'6" tall if that matters, looking for a LTR. Feel free to poke me, always happy to chat
Desires and Fantasies
I've been into submission for a while, Something about giving up that control gets my heart racing and yet, oddly relaxing~
My roles & archetype
My kinks & fetishes
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5'6" tall if that matters, looking for a LTR. Feel free to poke me, always happy to chat
BLACK SWAN TREASURE HUNT 2020
Can't find #13, Perhaps it's because I have no friends
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BLACK SWAN TREASURE HUNT 2020
I was looking at #9 this entire time and just ignored it because It looked identical to another pair of cuffs. Argh!
So now I'm entering a busy part of my life, I figured it's about time I talked a little bit more about myself, I wasn't sure where to start so I figured I'd tell this little story. Keep in mind, this is not a part of my life I'm proud of and It's one of the reasons I have difficulty putting trust Read more…
in anyone nowadays, it almost turned me away from this interest of mine for good. But I would like to put it out there for others to read, so here goes:
About over a year ago when I first became curious about the lifestyle I started exploring around, like you'd expect. Talking with people, getting there point of view, getting feedback and advice, it was all well and good. I believed myself to a person of good judgement of character, I've never been vastly wrong in the past, It was around this time I met, Her.
She was the first person I intended to commit myself to as we had similar interests, our conversations were long and fascinating and it was just a generally good vibe all around. I could see myself spending a lot of time with her, at least at first.
Things changed after we did our first session online, suddenly and without warning. It turns out she was not a person I should have put my trust and faith in, in fact she was a predator of sorts. Right after the session, she attempted to use it as a means of leverage to extort me, I was heart broken and most of all, ashamed. I couldn't believe I had misjudged someone by this degree, I was completely wrong about her.
At the time I didn't know how to handle the situation, the only thing that was greater than my own disappointment and shame was my anger towards her, I refused to let myself be extorted in such a way, It may have not been the correct decision but in the end I blocked her and deleted all my online accounts. I know now in retrospect I should have called the police since they know how to deal with that situation but I felt so ashamed I just wanted to forget about it. So back then I threw out every toy and bit of kit I had and tried to forget entirely about everything that just happened. I wasn't ever going to let myself be taken advantage of again.
Eventually, over time I came back, as you can see. Though it took a little time to restore my own self esteem and build my confidence again. The only difference now is I put a lot more stock in trust, it's something I am far more reserved in nowadays. I no longer give it so easily and refuse to be taken advantage of ever again.
I won't ever let what happened in the past repeat itself and if I choose to be open with someone, appreciate the fact that said trust I put in you, I don't give easily.
And that is the story I have to share with you all. It's not a pretty one, and it weighs heavily on my mind sometimes, it is definitely something I am not proud of and was a very low point in my life.
But for the most part I'm over it and I have moved on.
About over a year ago when I first became curious about the lifestyle I started exploring around, like you'd expect. Talking with people, getting there point of view, getting feedback and advice, it was all well and good. I believed myself to a person of good judgement of character, I've never been vastly wrong in the past, It was around this time I met, Her.
She was the first person I intended to commit myself to as we had similar interests, our conversations were long and fascinating and it was just a generally good vibe all around. I could see myself spending a lot of time with her, at least at first.
Things changed after we did our first session online, suddenly and without warning. It turns out she was not a person I should have put my trust and faith in, in fact she was a predator of sorts. Right after the session, she attempted to use it as a means of leverage to extort me, I was heart broken and most of all, ashamed. I couldn't believe I had misjudged someone by this degree, I was completely wrong about her.
At the time I didn't know how to handle the situation, the only thing that was greater than my own disappointment and shame was my anger towards her, I refused to let myself be extorted in such a way, It may have not been the correct decision but in the end I blocked her and deleted all my online accounts. I know now in retrospect I should have called the police since they know how to deal with that situation but I felt so ashamed I just wanted to forget about it. So back then I threw out every toy and bit of kit I had and tried to forget entirely about everything that just happened. I wasn't ever going to let myself be taken advantage of again.
Eventually, over time I came back, as you can see. Though it took a little time to restore my own self esteem and build my confidence again. The only difference now is I put a lot more stock in trust, it's something I am far more reserved in nowadays. I no longer give it so easily and refuse to be taken advantage of ever again.
I won't ever let what happened in the past repeat itself and if I choose to be open with someone, appreciate the fact that said trust I put in you, I don't give easily.
And that is the story I have to share with you all. It's not a pretty one, and it weighs heavily on my mind sometimes, it is definitely something I am not proud of and was a very low point in my life.
But for the most part I'm over it and I have moved on.
Phantom Feeling
So I've been wearing a collar for a while now, decided to keep it on whenever I'm not going anywhere or doing anything,
Sometimes I even sleep with it on just because I tend not to notice it's there half the time.
After a little while of doing this, I noticed that when I take it off, sometimes it Read more…feels like it's still there, which is an odd yet interesting feeling.
People have described a similar feeling with glasses which is known as phantom glasses syndrome.
A bizarre sensation yet I don't necessarily hate it. Out of curiosity, has anyone else experienced this with anything?
Sometimes I even sleep with it on just because I tend not to notice it's there half the time.
After a little while of doing this, I noticed that when I take it off, sometimes it Read more…feels like it's still there, which is an odd yet interesting feeling.
People have described a similar feeling with glasses which is known as phantom glasses syndrome.
A bizarre sensation yet I don't necessarily hate it. Out of curiosity, has anyone else experienced this with anything?
Lilandian ➦Lilandian quote Cade:❝This is not entirely uncommon. During the seven years of slave training in my dynamic, the submissive wears their collar 24/7 (only removed for safety considerations). At the end of that training, they are branded and the collar is removed for a one year "proving" period. Read more… Both individuals that have reached property status with me reported this phenomenon. I'd even catch kitty touching at her neck, looking for the collar that represented her security and strength, the commitment of our relationship. The collar is a very powerful representation of any dynamic!❞
That's exactly it! At one point without thinking I reached up to adjust it and then realised I didn't have it on.
That's exactly it! At one point without thinking I reached up to adjust it and then realised I didn't have it on.
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· 20.11.2020 19:56:56
Cade This is not entirely uncommon. During the seven years of slave training in my dynamic, the submissive wears their collar 24/7 (only removed for safety considerations). At the end of that training, they are branded and the collar is removed for a one year "proving" period. Both individuals that have Read more… reached property status with me reported this phenomenon. I'd even catch kitty touching at her neck, looking for the collar that represented her security and strength, the commitment of our relationship. The collar is a very powerful representation of any dynamic!
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· 20.11.2020 19:30:20
Lilandian ➦Lilandian quote Deleted profile:❝I have with glasses lol but still waiting on my first collar❞
When you do, maybe you'll feel the same thing haha ➦Lilandian quote Deleted profile:❝I have with glasses lol but still waiting on my first collar❞
When you do, maybe you'll feel the same thing haha
When you do, maybe you'll feel the same thing haha ➦Lilandian quote Deleted profile:❝I have with glasses lol but still waiting on my first collar❞
When you do, maybe you'll feel the same thing haha
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· 20.11.2020 18:51:16
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New Gear Suggestions?
Does anyone have any suggestions for a new Mitts, hood and collar?
My collar great quality, thick leather and comfortable but it doesn't have a ring in the front for attaching things which is annoying.
As for the hood, it's also great quality, leather and covers the entire head, though quite Read more…confining, narrows the vision a bit and presses slightly against my right side.
The mitts are just annoying, there made of neoprene and are difficult to strap around my small wrists.
It's all minor things but I figured I'd ask the community if they have any idea's for alternative gear if I ever decide to upgrade.
My collar great quality, thick leather and comfortable but it doesn't have a ring in the front for attaching things which is annoying.
As for the hood, it's also great quality, leather and covers the entire head, though quite Read more…confining, narrows the vision a bit and presses slightly against my right side.
The mitts are just annoying, there made of neoprene and are difficult to strap around my small wrists.
It's all minor things but I figured I'd ask the community if they have any idea's for alternative gear if I ever decide to upgrade.
Deleted profile ebay shops, made to measure your wrists. fetish search on your search browser. ebay shops, made to measure your wrists. fetish search on your search browser.
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19.11.2020 17:48:16
About me?
I'm a very relaxed person, always happy to add friends and converse, I'm quite short, roughly 5'3"...which is a thing.. that I am.. and I'm a Irish/British person with an accent that doesn't quite fit in either category, It's unique to me I've been told.
Don't know what else to say, Read more… just ask me I suppose, I enjoy a good chat haha
I'm a very relaxed person, always happy to add friends and converse, I'm quite short, roughly 5'3"...which is a thing.. that I am.. and I'm a Irish/British person with an accent that doesn't quite fit in either category, It's unique to me I've been told.
Don't know what else to say, Read more… just ask me I suppose, I enjoy a good chat haha
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