Haha trying to set up an account for ages and it's not working because I've already got one, go figure. Things have changed I'm now 31 living solo in a 2 bedroom flat in Brighton. I don't do stand up any more but I still very much love science and comedy. I like men of all ages as long as they are not much younger than me. I have become very intrested in understanding the process and conditioning of my mind. I have I guess become a 'spiritual' person but I don't really hang out in those groups as these people generally seem to be chasing something that is right here. I experience things differently now I have the experience of feeling incredibly pleasurable sensations that many say are a kind of energy but I only know they are sensations. I enjoy being challenged on all topics I hold nothing as sacred as this seems silly and egotistical.
I expect to be treated as an equal outside of play, I value Kindness, Humor and Intelligence in that order.
I have some experience so I have a fairly good grasp of what I like and what limits and boundaries I have I do like to have my boundaries pushed but hard limits must be respected.
I have always been kinky and a submissive I have some very involved fantasies that have been built up since I was very young mainly involving reluctant subs who despite their sensibilities become aroused in ways they cannot hide and are shamed for it. I enjoy the feeling of exposure and humiliation I particularly like restraints that force me to be spread open and held very securely.
I enjoy flogging particularly on my breasts I find I enjoy the aesthetic and psychology of spanking especially over the knee but i can't take a hard spanking the way I can take a flogging if it's been built up. I like to have my nipples twisted or clamped but I'm mostly not massively about the pain I find the psychological aspects most enjoyable.
I do like to be treated roughly being called names having my hair pulled and ordered around or handled roughly.
I love Shibari I don't know how to do it myself but anyone good with ropes is very welcome.
I am massively into edging and orgasm control, I love a Dom who likes to take their time setting up a scene and who enjoys long psychological play. I like to call you sir although allot of my fantasies are teacher schoolgirl type I'm not into the daddy daughter stuff it's just a step too far in that direction for me i like the psychology i know it's not actually about incest but I can't get past the language.
Say hello ask anything be as blunt as you like i'm not easily offended
Desires and Fantasies
Language and psychology are very important I do well with a good communicator and intelligent intuitive dom.
Edging, being given remote orders to edge myself before meeting or for days between meetings is welcome. I love to be tied up and edged with a wand on a low power setting. I really enjoy verbal doms who paint pictures and shame me or berate me for my desires. Humiliation is very exciting for me but I would only consider public humiliation in a fetish club due to the concent issue. Bondage is a big part of what I enjoy ropes or cuffs that dig in are better than soft unless the session is very long. I will communicate clearly and if I stop things they must be stopped imeediately. I am not into danger or pretend danger.