I’m a switch. I can lead with dominant caring attitude. I also enjoy the attention from sadistic characters who want to use me. I like to see what other dominants have got!
A relaxed guy who’s happy to be living a new life. I’m a considerate dominant. I put effort and aftercare for long term kink friendships. My friends describe me as professional, and discreet. I like being the hero. Romantic, polite, and arty natured.
Hello Acey. Just read your post, and I’m disappointed you’ve been let down so much. Now is not the time to feel strong, but it’s when you are going through the rough times that you are being strongest. The trick is each time to build on what you’ve learnt about yourself. Be honest with yourself Read more… what you will want, and tactfully communicate use this to find people who suit your real interests and your style. When it happens you realise how much of a miracle it is, but good communication is the key, in my opinion. Good luck Acey.
Like, others have said, it sounds like you are on different pages. If I was you, I would 1) consider each other’s general ’love’ languages. Use this to communicate more effectively. 2) consider if the specific activities you engage in are too self gratifying for the Dom. In my relationship Read more… both of the above mean the erotic activity is not purely physical, but becomes mutually engaging mentally. In your situation, it may be your Dom is to narrow focussed, and not keeping up with your pace of understanding.