Looking for a sensual lady who enjoys BDSM. I very much enjoy bondage with the focus of my partner experiencing as much pleasure as she can endure while bound. I'm average build and weight and appreciate similar attributes in my partner, although the more petite the better!
My favorite book about BDSM is "The Loving Dominant", as this book most closely parallels my own beliefs.
I am very discreet and would expect the same of any play partner.
Desires and Fantasies
I have been an active Dominant for several years and have tried several different things along the journey. I have many different types of cuffs, collars, floggers, paddles, etc... which I enjoy trying on a willing partner. I like the use of blindfolds to heighten the anticipation factor, but not required. As with any play of this type, the first priorities are 1) Safety 2) Saneness and 3) Consenuality above all! The more closely aligned our "kinks" are, the more fun the time together! A BDSM checklist would be a must to exchange before ever attempting any sort of play.