About me
Interested in:
I’m looking for:
- Friends
- Kinky Dates
- LTR (relationship)
- Networking
- BDSM Lovers
Description
Everyone is unique and I'm still learning just who I am.
I'm exploring where I am on the 'Switch' scale, used to think I was more Dom than sub but really does depend how I feel, but do get pleasure from giving my partner what they seek and enjoy. Personally, I'm open minded, determined (okay - stubborn sometimes!) and love to learn.
I've lots to discover on this path, as well as having mild epilepsy and having burned my upper body/hands in a cooking accident. I don't let those issues hold me back though.
Desires and Fantasies
Delaying my own orgasms and attaining repeated orgasms for who I'm with - particularly whilst they are tied up.
Stretching both my boundaries and those of who I'm with.
Sharing the exploration, the teasing and the spanking.
My roles & archetype
My kinks & fetishes
I like:
Wanna know what interests me?:
Fetish.com gives you…
Fetish.com is like an appetizing smorgasbord in Gosport with lots of hot guys to meet up with. Have a look around first if you prefer to see who’s around, or if you know what you want, search by selecting the right category "Kinky Dating”. Nobody stays alone here for long! Fetish.com has tons going on!
I'm exploring where I am on the 'Switch' scale, used to think I was more Dom than sub but really does depend how I feel, but do get pleasure from giving my partner what they seek and enjoy. Personally, I'm open minded, determined (okay - Read more… stubborn sometimes!) and love to learn.
I've lots to discover on this path, as well as having mild epilepsy and having burned my upper body/hands in a cooking accident. I don't let those issues hold me back though.
Enjoying the Black Swan Treasure Hunt...
I'm more Dom than sub, but I get pleasure from giving my partner what they seek and enjoy. There is also a side of me that will switch occasionally. Personally, I'm open minded and love to learn.
Ideally I'd like to build a trusting, close, Read more… pleasurable connection with a sub which gives us both what we need.
Thanks for that eyemblacksheep
I'm reading threads in various Forums, talking to friends and this site is a great help, but seems all D/s play varies a lot.
If it's difficult to see what a new Dom might offer an experienced f-sub, then a new Dom might seek a new sub. If it works, great - but risk Read more… that neither really knows what they're doing... and certainly lots of misrepresentation of BDSM out there.
So most of us newbies are willing to learn - and likely looking to stretch our boundaries.
Can see why an experienced Dom would take on a new sub, but would many experienced subs see much for them in linking with a new Dom?
I'm new to this site but I'd be very wary of anyone who feels it is okay to force you into doing anything you're not comfortable with by threatening to leave. That is bullying not BDSM.
Your BPD shouldn't matter, what's past is past, if anything the stress from doing things you aren't happy with is Read more… likely to aggravate it. If you are getting the BPD under control (non-violent for a year) it is possible, and I hope I am wrong, that he feels you are less dependent on him now. Such a change in behaviour would be a very negative way of dealing with a positive step for you (well done you!).
You are a valuable person in your own right and you deserve respect, and if he treats others like you - by not listening to what they need - then he will find that he will not easily find anyone to do anything.
I want to build a trusting, close, pleasurable connection with a sub which gives us both what we need.
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