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Gender Man
Age 35
Status Single
Height 178cm
Weight 109kg
Body shape Plus-size
Sexual position More top
Eye colour Brown
Hair colour Black
Hair length Short
Beard Goatie
Orientation Straight
Ethnicity Mixed race
Body hair Some hair
Zodiac sign Scorpio
Glasses
Smoker
Tattoos
Piercings
Disability

About me

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Description

I'm still learning tbis app and all its features so please be patient if I miss a notification.

My name is Martin. I’m a top caregiver, and aspiring wrangler. 35 years old. I love computer work and repair – it feels fulfilling and gives me a sense of purpose. Outside of work I play a lot of video games and focus on learning French as part of my larger life plan. I’m a homebody, I prefer nights into going out but I would like to grow in this area a bit more and find events worth going to.

I’m looking for an in person relationship – online to start as we get to know each other but the goal is to move to the non-screen world. It's really hard to watch as a partner goes through rough times without being able to do anything to help. For that reason it would help if you are close to the midwest or have the desire to travel to stare at Iowa’s endless acres of corn. I’d like to find someone who really values communication and looks for clarification. I’ve found that this does fit the majority of brats as you nerdo’s try to rules lawyer everything. (which is fun most of the time)

Be creative, tell me what makes you happy, show off your mind – that’s what I will have the most interest in. I’d like to find someone who is working towards a big goal: a degree or maybe a specific career path.

Limits

No diapers ever

My roles & archetype

Fetish.com gives you…


Fetish.com is like an appetizing smorgasbord in Dubuque with lots of hot guys to meet up with. Have a look around first if you prefer to see who’s around, or if you know what you want, search by selecting the right category "Kinky Dating”. Nobody stays alone here for long! Fetish.com has tons going on!

MartinISD
icon-wio MartinISD posted a status update
  • 01.10.2024 21:51:57
  • Male (35)
  • Dubuque
  • Single
I wish I could find a masochist/brat closer to me
LikeMistresskaty08
MartinISD
icon-wio MartinISD posted a status update
  • 30.09.2024 7:42:22
  • Male (35)
  • Dubuque
  • Single
I wish I knew what qualifies someone as a match here. I recently "matched" with some person who, going by their tags, seems to be the opposite.
MartinISD
icon-wio MartinISD posted a status update
  • 29.09.2024 23:15:41
  • Male (35)
  • Dubuque
  • Single
I wish everyone wasn't so far away. Travel isn't easy for me and it would be nice to meet a lady who had similar tastes.
LikeMistressjen149, Mistressnara
MartinISD
icon-wio MartinISD has uploaded a new photo
  • 16.09.2024 2:35:47
  • Male (35)
  • Dubuque
  • Single
  • MartinISD
MartinISD
icon-wio MartinISD posted a status update
  • 13.09.2024 6:56:00
  • Male (35)
  • Dubuque
  • Single
I know there are brat discords but how to meet one locally/somewhat close when there's not much of a community here?
MartinISD
icon-wio MartinISD created a topic in BDSM Gear & Sex Toys
Velcro restraints
What are everyone's thoughts on velcro restraints? Do they work reasonably well? Are they a good safe option compared to complex knots?
LikeLichesagainstpornand 15 more… · 14 Replies
going2graceland Not as sexy, but they work! Not as sexy, but they work!
Like 30.08.2024 22:23:04
Jumbo_D
Jumbo_D If it helps with the do they work part of the question, the police use Velcro restraints for quick efficient restraint techniques (that may also assist if you have certain kinks lol) not as pleasing on the eye as rope but less technical with all the lack of movement ;-) If it helps with the do they work part of the question, the police use Velcro restraints for quick efficient restraint techniques (that may also assist if you have certain kinks lol) not as pleasing on the eye as rope but less technical with all the lack of movement ;-)
Like · 30.08.2024 10:04:40
Chesterfield_Dreams
Chesterfield_Dreams Aesthetically it’s nowhere near as nice.
Functionally it’s almost always fine.
Hold her with your gaze and quickly clip her hands behind her back vs focusing on getting the knot correct so it stays tight but doesn’t damage a nerve, needing full concentration to get it right.
Plenty of people are very good with rope, but for new starters, it’s very hard to keep the intensity while trying to remember which way the loop goes while you thread the other bit through. Aesthetically it’s nowhere near as nice.
Functionally it’s almost always fine.
Hold her with your gaze and quickly clip her hands behind her back vs focusing on getting the knot correct so it stays tight but doesn’t damage a nerve, needing full concentration to get it right.
Plenty of people are very good with rope, but for new starters, it’s very hard to keep the intensity while trying to remember which way the loop goes while you thread the other bit through.
Like · 29.08.2024 18:46:52
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MartinISD
icon-wio MartinISD posted a status update
  • 22.08.2024 6:07:35
  • Male (35)
  • Dubuque
  • Single
Do the courses provided by this app have good information?
MartinISD
icon-wio MartinISD posted a status update
  • 08.08.2024 6:35:31
  • Male (35)
  • Dubuque
  • Single
Why can I only see some of my matches? Why does clicking on the blurred profiles take me a page about my already active subscription??
MartinISD
icon-wio MartinISD posted a status update
  • 01.08.2024 21:11:11
  • Male (35)
  • Dubuque
  • Single
Why do so many of my "matches" have inactive accounts? People who haven't been here in 2-12 months shouldn't be shown off as a possibility.
MartinISD
icon-wio MartinISD posted a status update
  • 30.07.2024 21:37:24
  • Male (35)
  • Dubuque
  • Single
I wish there was a more of a local community, I've been itching to run an impact scene with a lovely lady.
MartinISD
icon-wio MartinISD has uploaded new photos
  • 19.07.2024 8:00:55
  • Male (35)
  • Dubuque
  • Single
  • MartinISD
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MartinISD
icon-wio MartinISD has uploaded a new photo
  • 17.07.2024 19:31:56
  • Male (35)
  • Dubuque
  • Single
  • MartinISD
MartinISD
icon-wio MartinISD wrote something in the forum
  • 07.07.2024 22:38:10
  • Male (35)
  • Dubuque
  • Single
Which type of Masochist are you?

Physical. Bruises heal but mental and emotional can do way too much unseen damage.

LikeStringlady13 · Jump to discussion
MartinISD
icon-wio MartinISD has bought a VIP-membership!
  • 07.07.2024 19:59:52
  • Male (35)
  • Dubuque
  • Single