I’m getting sooooo fed up with being hurt. Don’t bother to get in touch unless you are pretty close to God Himself with a worldview that transcends the norm.

I’m for real. Unless you are also, please just leave me alone

I like to think that,to the outside world, I am a bright, intelligent, successful, mentally strong “normal” woman. The man that I kneel before will need to be brighter, more intelligent, more successful, stronger.

Once we have built up the mutual respect necessary and the relationship has forged sufficiently, he will get everything that is mine to offer ; there’s a fair bit on offer.

Until that point, he doesn’t get to lay a finger on me in terms of Ownership. No one orders me around, nobody uses me other than the Person I finally submit to and no one abuses me ever.

Please don’t waste my time and yours unless you fully understand fully how the power exchange dynamic works and want to find one that works for you and me. I am not in this to just be tied up for a while, hit around a bit before a bit of rough casual sex. Don’t get me wrong, I love restraints, have a Masochistic side to explore and who doesn’t love rough sex but also gentle asdionate love making at other times. It’s all about context!!!!!

So, this is me according to the test - it's not a bad reflection of my character and certainly highlights the core things I want most.

That said, whilst hating labels, I tend to class myself predominantly a mixture of a Little and Princess by Day, Slut by Night with a hint of Brat thrown in the mix ( My Mentors assessment of me ).

I’m only non monogamous until I find the right person. He gets exclusivity.

I am open to most things in principle. For sure limits change over time and experience. It’s all an evolution. I never say never, just some things are not for today ...

IF you have attributes and characteristics to complement mine, then maybe we should be talking.

Xxxx,

== Results from bdsmtest.org ==

100% Non-monogamist
99% Rope bunny
88% Masochist
79% Slave
76% Experimentalist
69% Submissive
65% Degradee
65% Switch
64% Ageplayer
61% Voyeur
56% Primal (Prey)
55% Dominant
55% Sadist
49% Rigger
49% Brat
48% Pet
44% Exhibitionist
42% Daddy/Mommy
34% Boy/Girl
33% Degrader
19% Master/Mistress
18% Primal (Hunter)
17% Owner
16% Vanilla

Desires and Fantasies
No fantasies ; just, as yet, unfulfilled realities.


I have a job description for the lifestyle Dom I need in my life.

Ask me, and I will send a copy.

This will, of course, reflect my starting point. Whether it gets off the ground and where it goes depends on the evolving dynamic between us.

Gain my trust, respect and love ......... YOUR sky is OUR limit