We are a couple looking for stories and advice from experienced BDSMers and fetishists.
Desires and Fantasies
This could go on forever. Wife likes to tie up and spank. She is also open to being tied or otherwise restrained. Husband is a book with blank pages. In addition to simple restraints, he has a strong desire to be suspended on the St. Andrews Cross. He is also looking for experience in ball stretchers, hot wax, anal play, penile sounds, golden showers, and more. Crossdressing is his favorite thing. We have been swingers for most of our marriage, so we are not new to group scenes, being naked around others, threesomes, etc. Adding BDSM to the mix seems like a natural progression for us, and for him, coming out as a cross dresser is fairly recent. So we have lots to learn.