I like your argument Zak. Who wants someone who acts like a doormat and puts zero into the relationship? However, I think subs are often too complex to fit into your neat categories.
Subs probably grovel to get attention online so that might skew your judgement. Unless you want the 24/7 lifestyle Read more… I feel many of us are different people outside of the bedroom.

Very much like my gf. Try as I do.

I find women with pubic hair irresistible. Women who don’t shave their armpits display a confidence in themselves. This is attractive.
I regularly have an argument with a younger work colleague about the merits of female pubic hair. He, and may I add, his girlfriend believe it more hygienic and are Read more… both shaved. This seems drastic and naive to me.
Maybe it’s an age thing with me but please be comfortable with your hair and never give in to pressure.

Receiving, if that question was for me.

It’s messy and awkward to ask for but certainly one of the most amazing and memorable experience I’ve had the pleasure of.

It’s a dilemma but if your spouse doesn’t give you the opportunity to explore your fetish as they’re not that way inclined and you don’t want to cheat then it’s surely reasonable to find another way of satisfying your desire.
I’m personally in that situation and frankly jealous of the original Read more… poster’s sub as I’d love something like that. My need for someone who’s dominant is the reason I’m on this site but I don’t want to cheat on my wife. She’s wonderful and I love her but I can’t change her nature and it’s not fair to demand something she doesn’t really want to do.
I doubt I could bring myself to visit a professional Domme as it would feel disloyal although I’ve thought about it. I fantasise that I could justify myself if it was purely non-sexual but of course it would be if only in my mind.
So I’m intrigued by this story. Maybe you should tell him to initiate sex with his wife as a duty for being submissive? And immediately on your instruction. Also, he could ruin his orgasm with a little bit of control.
I’m going off on a tangent here but I think it’s a lovely situation for both of you and you should make the most of it.

I think it’s wonderful that you’re still exploring, keeping an open mind, enjoying yourself.
Many of us older people on here felt obliged to conform to societal norms when we were young. It’s only now I feel able to express my feelings.
With age comes wisdom. It’s not a barrier it’s a strength. Read more… Older women have always been a big attraction to me and I’m definitely not the only one who feels this way.