About me
I’m looking for:
- Friends
- Kinky Dates
- LTR (relationship)
- NSA (no strings...)
- BDSM Lovers
- Cybersex
Description
Poly-inquisitive. Not explored this but hoping to... like the idea of a FFM triad...
Friendly and outgoing. Loving exploring BDSM 
looking to make friends, maybe find a Dom and explore my boundaries.
I’m a sub and have absolutely no desire to dominate.
Love having all my choices taken away and being at the mercy of someone else to use and abuse.
My roles & archetype
My kinks & fetishes
I like:
- Age Play (Active)
- Anal Beads (Active)
- Anal Plugs (Active)
- Blindfolds (Active)
- Begging (Active)
- Bondage (Active)
- Bondage Bed (Active)
- Bondage Rope (Active)
- Dildos (Active)
- Dirty Talk (Active)
- Discipline (Active)
- Restraints (Active)
- Gags (Active)
- Handcuffs (Active)
- Handyman - Housewife (Active)
- Rough Sex (Active)
- Heterosexual (Active)
- Humiliation (Active)
- Orgasm Control (Active)
- Spanking Paddles (Active)
- Role Play (Active)
- Sensory Deprivation (Active)
- Spanking (Active)
- Spreader Bar (Active)
- Submission (Active)
- Suspension Cuffs (Active)
- Subservience (Active)
- Vibrators (Active)
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Poly-inquisitive. Not explored this but hoping to... like the idea of a FFM triad...
Friendly and outgoing. Loving exploring BDSM looking to make friends, maybe find a Dom and explore my boundaries.
I’m a sub and have absolutely no desire to dominate.
Love having all my choices taken away Read more… and being at the mercy of someone else to use and abuse.
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Submissive
100% Rope bunny
97% Brat
91% Voyeur
78% Non-monogamist
76% Degradee
75% Boy/Girl
72% Exhibitionist
71% Primal (Prey)
69% Masochist
68% Experimentalist
48% Ageplayer
48% Vanilla
45% Slave
36% Pet
14% Rigger
2% Brat tamer
1% Degrader
1% Daddy/Mommy
1% Master/Mistress
1% Primal (Hunter)
1% Switch
1% Owner
0% Dominant
0% Sadist
Friendly and outgoing. Loving exploring BDSM
looking to make friends, maybe find a Dom and explore my boundaries.I’m a sub and have absolutely no desire to dominate.
Love having all my choices taken away Read more… and being at the mercy of someone else to use and abuse.
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Submissive
100% Rope bunny
97% Brat
91% Voyeur
78% Non-monogamist
76% Degradee
75% Boy/Girl
72% Exhibitionist
71% Primal (Prey)
69% Masochist
68% Experimentalist
48% Ageplayer
48% Vanilla
45% Slave
36% Pet
14% Rigger
2% Brat tamer
1% Degrader
1% Daddy/Mommy
1% Master/Mistress
1% Primal (Hunter)
1% Switch
1% Owner
0% Dominant
0% Sadist
Subs or Doms, who has the control?
Loving reading your answers everyone. Varied but also mainly of the same consensus.
Xxx
Likelil-monster, Jed ·
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Subs or Doms, who has the control?
So following a discussion in the lobby earlier I made the throw away comment that the control really lies with the sub. Which was opposed by a few on there. This then sparked mass debate in my own head so thought I’d write it down and reflect! Would love to hear others thoughts and views also 👍🏻
I Read more…am still fairly new to BDSM but I guess I had always thought this: That the sub sets the hard limits, and even if the choice is to relinquish all control, that it is still given initially and thus can be taken back.
A D/s relationship however, in my mind, is no different to any other, in that it is a partnership and so is a give/take on both parts.
I guess there are ways the Dom exerts the control in a way where the sub has no choice or control, even to stop- denial for example.
So if the Dom, for example chooses to not let their sub orgasm. Who has the control then?
Sorry for the ramble, it just felt like one of those mini moments of clarity I wanted to share 😄
I Read more…am still fairly new to BDSM but I guess I had always thought this: That the sub sets the hard limits, and even if the choice is to relinquish all control, that it is still given initially and thus can be taken back.
A D/s relationship however, in my mind, is no different to any other, in that it is a partnership and so is a give/take on both parts.
I guess there are ways the Dom exerts the control in a way where the sub has no choice or control, even to stop- denial for example.
So if the Dom, for example chooses to not let their sub orgasm. Who has the control then?
Sorry for the ramble, it just felt like one of those mini moments of clarity I wanted to share 😄
Likelil-monster, KHCuriousand 4 more… · 28 Replies
chastityslavecaged ➦chastityslavecaged quote miss_subalicious:❝So following a discussion in the lobby earlier I made the throw away comment that the control really lies with the sub. Which was opposed by a few on there. This then sparked mass debate in my own head so thought I’d write it down and reflect! Would love Read more… to hear others thoughts and views also 👍🏻
I am still fairly new to BDSM but I guess I had always thought this: That the sub sets the hard limits, and even if the choice is to relinquish all control, that it is still given initially and thus can be taken back.
A D/s relationship however, in my mind, is no different to any other, in that it is a partnership and so is a give/take on both parts.
I guess there are ways the Dom exerts the control in a way where the sub has no choice or control, even to stop- denial for example.
So if the Dom, for example chooses to not let their sub orgasm. Who has the control then?
Sorry for the ramble, it just felt like one of those mini moments of clarity I wanted to share 😄
chastity slave caged believes that once a slave surrenders itself it gives up total control.❞
I am still fairly new to BDSM but I guess I had always thought this: That the sub sets the hard limits, and even if the choice is to relinquish all control, that it is still given initially and thus can be taken back.
A D/s relationship however, in my mind, is no different to any other, in that it is a partnership and so is a give/take on both parts.
I guess there are ways the Dom exerts the control in a way where the sub has no choice or control, even to stop- denial for example.
So if the Dom, for example chooses to not let their sub orgasm. Who has the control then?
Sorry for the ramble, it just felt like one of those mini moments of clarity I wanted to share 😄
chastity slave caged believes that once a slave surrenders itself it gives up total control.❞
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· 14.05.2019 9:08:09
SamLaraCroft I think it depends on the Dom and the sub couple, some Doms are very in control and won't stand for any disobedience at all, this takes a special kind of sub to comply, someone very masochistic in my mind and someone who has no desires or needs of their own. some Doms are very caring and considerate and like to reward their sub for pleasing them and being obedient, in this sense the sub can control the rewards if they express clearly how they want to be rewarded. I think it depends on the Dom and the sub couple, some Doms are very in control and won't stand for any disobedience at all, this takes a special kind of sub to comply, someone very masochistic in my mind and someone who has no desires or needs of their own. some Doms are very caring and considerate and like to reward their sub for pleasing them and being obedient, in this sense the sub can control the rewards if they express clearly how they want to be rewarded.
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· 09.05.2019 10:47:13
Deleted profile I think the control lies with the sub assuming the Dominant adheres to the safe word.It's natural the sub would want to please it's Dom which is only right in a relationship.Personally my limit would mean no permanent injury and quite possibly no scat but id like to think if a Dom took care of me i Read more… would want to submit as well as agree to his needs.Mentally id like to think that with the right man id progress to slave and give up my rights and he would control me 24-7 in every aspect of my life.Does anyone else think this way? thanks.
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09.05.2019 5:41:27
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Friendly and outgoing. Loving exploring BDSM looking to make friends, maybe find a Dom and explore my boundaries.
I’m a sub and have absolutely no desire to dominate.
Love having all my choices taken away and being at the mercy of someone else to use and abuse.
== Results from bdsmtest.org Read more… ==
100% Submissive
100% Rope bunny
97% Brat
91% Voyeur
78% Non-monogamist
76% Degradee
75% Boy/Girl
72% Exhibitionist
71% Primal (Prey)
69% Masochist
68% Experimentalist
48% Ageplayer
48% Vanilla
45% Slave
36% Pet
14% Rigger
2% Brat tamer
1% Degrader
1% Daddy/Mommy
1% Master/Mistress
1% Primal (Hunter)
1% Switch
1% Owner
0% Dominant
0% Sadist
looking to make friends, maybe find a Dom and explore my boundaries.I’m a sub and have absolutely no desire to dominate.
Love having all my choices taken away and being at the mercy of someone else to use and abuse.
== Results from bdsmtest.org Read more… ==
100% Submissive
100% Rope bunny
97% Brat
91% Voyeur
78% Non-monogamist
76% Degradee
75% Boy/Girl
72% Exhibitionist
71% Primal (Prey)
69% Masochist
68% Experimentalist
48% Ageplayer
48% Vanilla
45% Slave
36% Pet
14% Rigger
2% Brat tamer
1% Degrader
1% Daddy/Mommy
1% Master/Mistress
1% Primal (Hunter)
1% Switch
1% Owner
0% Dominant
0% Sadist
Loving exploring BDSM looking to make friends and explore my boundaries
looking to make friends and explore my boundaries
The darker side of the dark side
Beautiful, Fire xx
LikeJed, PatientTravellerand 1 more… ·
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New to bdsm and excited to learn looking to make friends and explore my boundaries
looking to make friends and explore my boundaries
First time anal
Lots of lube and slowly! Enjoy 😉
LikeCharmsand 4 more… ·
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New submissive... advice please
Hi, I'm new to all this...
I'm very submissive and would like to meet a master who will teach,nurture and guide me.
What I have noticed on here is that many people are not exclusive in their relationships and may have more than one sub. I know I wouldn't like this and would get jealous... so is that the norm? Or do some Masters want exclusivity also?
Just feeling my way and trying to get a feel for it all. Thanks in advance
I'm very submissive and would like to meet a master who will teach,nurture and guide me.
What I have noticed on here is that many people are not exclusive in their relationships and may have more than one sub. I know I wouldn't like this and would get jealous... so is that the norm? Or do some Masters want exclusivity also?
Just feeling my way and trying to get a feel for it all. Thanks in advance
LikeCarnelian2, PatientTraveller, Strapsthenameand 6 more… · 14 Replies
Deleted profile watch out for the bullies and scum bags who hide behind their kink as an excuse to abuse women. Spread your wings and remember communication is key in a ds relationship even more than vanilla. If he's not asking lots about you and your limits he's a fake. Xx watch out for the bullies and scum bags who hide behind their kink as an excuse to abuse women. Spread your wings and remember communication is key in a ds relationship even more than vanilla. If he's not asking lots about you and your limits he's a fake. Xx
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09.01.2018 15:58:40
Deleted profile Firstly it like to echo Nath6912’s wise words and say- watch out for the twats.
Walk this path slow, with eyes and ears and mind wide open. Decide yourself which turns to take and who walks with you.
Make the one you chose earn your submission with trust respect and care and respect and respect Read more… and respect .... did I mention respect ?
Not only would this be you submitting in the most dignified manner , but ask any real Dom, it’s worth ten times as much than that offered on a plate.
“Blessings earnt are treasured, those given are often forgotten.”
Good luck
G
p.s Bums the word .
Walk this path slow, with eyes and ears and mind wide open. Decide yourself which turns to take and who walks with you.
Make the one you chose earn your submission with trust respect and care and respect and respect Read more… and respect .... did I mention respect ?
Not only would this be you submitting in the most dignified manner , but ask any real Dom, it’s worth ten times as much than that offered on a plate.
“Blessings earnt are treasured, those given are often forgotten.”
Good luck
G
p.s Bums the word .
Likemiss_subalicious, Robustloveand 2 more…
14.12.2017 21:33:14
Ava88 I too am a new sub but I've wanted to be savagely dominated for a very long time. I just never knew how to ask mhm boyfriend and I thought something was wrong with me..... why I wanted these "taboo" things sexually.
Until one day after a couple months of talking to this dom online, I decided I Read more… was ready....that I couldn't handle not trying it... and my first real play time with my dom I knew that's exactly what I needed and why I was never sexually satisfied.... and one girl also commented something like "it's not for you unless you know there is no going back to regular sex" and it's true..... the best is when you smile because certain parts of your body is sore or bruised and knowing it came from an erotic, dominating , humiliating, pleasurable night...and you crave for more. If you have a good dom..... I've met guys who want to be a "dom" by making you fuck other men whenever he says so... or control every aspect of everything... not healthy and deff stay away
Until one day after a couple months of talking to this dom online, I decided I Read more… was ready....that I couldn't handle not trying it... and my first real play time with my dom I knew that's exactly what I needed and why I was never sexually satisfied.... and one girl also commented something like "it's not for you unless you know there is no going back to regular sex" and it's true..... the best is when you smile because certain parts of your body is sore or bruised and knowing it came from an erotic, dominating , humiliating, pleasurable night...and you crave for more. If you have a good dom..... I've met guys who want to be a "dom" by making you fuck other men whenever he says so... or control every aspect of everything... not healthy and deff stay away
Likemiss_subalicious, Robustloveand 1 more…
· 14.12.2017 10:10:34
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