I don't think of myself as kinky because the things I enjoy are normal . . . its just that my normal isn't quite the same as most ?
I am a sub but don't really fit into any one type, it all depends on the the person I'm with and how we connect.
I am in Master/slave relationship but because I'm not his primary it means I'm free to explore elsewhere. Online wouldn't work for me, its fine for a little fun but only within a real time relationship.
£400 retainer - nope, not a chance. you haven't even met yet to see if she 'real' never mind trustworthy!
i've only ever had one contract and it was only after we knew each other for a few months and had established a connection. even then it was a work I progress for a few weeks till we worked Read more… out what suited us both.
to begin, for a 1st meet you should always arrange to meet in a public place and as an added precaution I make my own way there and back. dont give out too many personal details straight away, use kik or some other messenger where you dont need to share phone numbers.
as for alarm bells, yeah a Read more… lot of times things are too good to be true - thats where skype, etc can help. its something I dont use for play but am happy to have a quick cam chat to see the person your talking to matches the pics they use.