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Gender Man
Age 46
Status Not single
Height 176cm
Weight 73kg
Body shape Average build
Eye colour Brown
Hair colour Brown
Hair length Short
Beard Shaved/no beard
Orientation Straight
Ethnicity Caucasian white
Origin UK
Pubic Hair Natural
Body hair Some hair
Circumcised No
Zodiac sign Taurus
Glasses
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Tattoos
Piercings

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Update - apparently I'm a good kisser and my finger skills are .. up there... in a good way.

Married man here with wife's consent - ENM as the cool kids say - seeks enthusiastic submissive lady (or couple) who is seeking to relinquish control to a well educated professional man.
I am looking to build a connection, regular play dates and fun. Not looking for 24/7, but rather regular meets consisting of a "date" and kink. Not looking for just a quick in and out.

I love cuves, a look of mischief in the eyes, public caressing and collars, kissing, and spanking. I'm not looking for someone to meet all my kinks, but rather to find someone who enjoys what I can provide to meet their needs.

I would love to hear from you and happy to chat.

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, , anything illegal.

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Update - apparently I'm a good kisser and my finger skills are .. up there... in a good way.

Married man here with wife's consent - ENM as the cool kids say - seeks enthusiastic submissive lady (or couple) who is seeking to relinquish control to a well educated professional man.
I am looking to Read more… build a connection, regular play dates and fun. Not looking for 24/7, but rather regular meets consisting of a "date" and kink. Not looking for just a quick in and out.

I love cuves, a look of mischief in the eyes, public caressing and collars, kissing, and spanking. I'm not looking for someone to meet all my kinks, but rather to find someone who enjoys what I can provide to meet their needs.

I would love to hear from you and happy to chat.
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, , anything illegal.
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Today's UK Supreme Court ruling

The conflict between the Acts in question was the result of *** poor knee jerk emotional reaction drafting. Such is law though.
Law is black and white. Discretion is granted sometimes for legal interpretation.
The whole mess needed clearing up but there are no votes to be winning doing so, only Read more… votes lost.
So the legal system was asked to make a decision.
It's a matter of drawing a line for the time being. Until one gender can have all their genes replaced to become the other gender, or something in-between if they wise, then we need a distincton. Men are stronger, faster, bigger than women. A man cannot become a woman currently.
The insistence that trans women are women is wrong.
The other way round doesn't matter as much in respect to safety. Interestingly I have seen trans men as vociferous a group regarding this issue.
A woman will (almost) always be at physical disadvantage to a man who has transition to a trans woman.
Women's spaces, sports, & distinct roles become battlegrounds - which isn't right.
I welcome the ruling.
Trans women are not yet women. They hover somewhere in between. As above the technology isn't there yet. Until then the distinction must remain.

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