I have been in this lifestyle for over 12 years. I am an experienced in both online and in person interactions. In the 12 years since I discovered this side of life, I have learned what makes a good sub, how to train a good sub what makes a good Domme, and above all, how to integrate my needs as a Domme with the needs of my subs. What good is a Domme that doesn't understand the reasons someone wants to submit?

Domination is not about oppression, it's about knowing another person fully and being worthy of their trust to the degree that they want to turn over control to you. It's a serious responsibility outside of mere bedroom games. What I'm looking for in a sub is someone that has a real need to turn over that control, and trust me enough or learn how, to give that up to me. For my part, I vow to be worthy of that trust and to make the submission experience beyond anything the sub hoped or imagine.

Findom is a very specialized kink, but the Domme aspect still stands true, and a real findomme knows that

Desires and Fantasies
I am looking for subs so if you know what it means to be a real sub, contact me. If you just think you may be a sub, think very hard before contacting me because I do train my subs in the best way to serve me and I don't have time for sub wannabes that aren't sure they really want to give themselves over in every way.