Young 53, reasonably fit. Seeking BDSM friends. Get in touch to know more please.

Please note that I'm not seeking sex as such but anything with toys and kink paraphernalia is open to discussion. (I know that this limitation won't appeal to most people). What I'm seeking/offering is safe d/s play and play with toys.

Desires and Fantasies
I've described myself as a 'switch' ...I find powerful people mesmerising and I love to submit to them. But if someone wants to serve me then that is exciting too. I'm used to being in control and being responsible in my everyday life and I can assume that role. So the following is split into two depending on what you are interested in.

To those who want to dominate....
I can very easily slip into the role of submissive and if you have a sadistic streak then it would excite me to provide an opportunity for you to express that. Happy to discuss further but if this has piqued your interest I'd rather find out what you want and to see if I can provide it.

To anyone who wants to submit...
I would never be a disrespectful bully. I would not use passive aggression to get what I want. The interesting thing about this kind of relationship is the giving of power and control. The submissive gifts those things to the one who then assumes control. The sub can always take it back. I know what it feels like to be spanked and caned. I am very interested in delivering that kind of pain to a person who wants and needs it. So in a nutshell I can make you suffer and then I will make you cum with a toy of your choosing.