Looking to meet lovely people to explore with irl. I am keen to broaden my horizons and do new things with people I have a connection with.
In a primary ENM/CNM relationship. She knows I'm here but not looking to meet up as a couple, and not looking for a new primary/LTR.
Nerdy AuDHD daftie. Love making music, playing board games, computer projects, gigs and festivals, and eating out. (Both kinds!) Fond of a party if the vibes are right.
I make a great espresso martini.
Medium active. I enjoy indoor climbing, walks and swimming. Adore skiing when I get to go.
Relatively new to The Scene. In an ENM relationship and looking for FWB/Play partners, but connection is a must.
I'm a giver and would like to focus my attention on you. x
Can host, will travel.
🍄❄️🌱 accepted but optional, and not straight away. consent is sexy and much clearer with a clear mind.
play and butt stuff is off the table without a lot of trust. Breathplay, a hard no.
I was really nervous about butt stuff in general and my partner really helped me, and we worked our way up to it. But working up is easier than that One Thing My Partner Wants because that's a good chance it won't go quite that way and you don't want to disappoint.
I think it's worth addressing Read more… that specifically. Maybe trying for a short time without the expectation of a finish. Everything to take the pressure off.
Is that a big concern of yours? It sounds like you're happy with butt stuff in general... or do you feel uncomfortable with a strap on? Perhaps spending some time with that (and discovering that your partner really likes how it looks and gets excited by it even if you think it looks silly) might help?