Hi, welcome to our profile,
We are a fun couple, who enjoy a laugh and chatting, looking for those special people to enjoy sexy times with :)
We realise no one reads a long blurb, so to keep it simple we have done bullet points :)
We are happy to travel.
WE ARE LOOKING FOR:
Couples to make friends and hopefully meet at clubs as we get out more. We are also happy to show any couples the 'ropes' so to speak with BDSM, we have been in the scene over 15 years and are happy to help those new to kink.
BEFORE CONTACTING US PLEASE BE AWARE:
It's only a fantasy if you aren't going to do it ;)
I will be honest I struggle with the idea that a Dom/sub relationship is different to any other form of relationship. In all relationships there needs to understanding, two way communication and give and take. From your explanation it does seem your Dom contacts you when he feels like it and then Read more… ignores you when he cannot be bothered, in the vanilla world that would be a Booty call, not a relationship.
You say your relationship agenda is obvious but have never spoken about it, and that he has trained you to see his position in the relationship without directly communicating. Without any communication or confirmation from him it sounds like all you have done is presumed both his agenda and role based on guesswork, not facts.
I am sorry to be so harsh, I realise he is your Dom, but you have asked for peoples comments.
One question for you, why are you asking strangers what is going on, shouldn't you be asking your Dom directly for a clearer understanding of what he is doing? Or is it that you don't think he would respond or might perhaps just ignore you again. If that is the reason then you do need to think seriously about what relationship you actually have with him.
I suppose the question is, is looking for a 'paypig' different to looking for a spanker, rubberlover, DaddyDom, foot slave etc.
I realise it is more of a business transaction but if the people asking are registered on here as professionals, then I cannot see they are doing anything wrong.
I am not Read more… into rubber but have no problem with someone asking for a rubber lover.
Kink is a very very 'broad' church with many different facets, some more popular than others, but the old saying of YKINMK (Your Kink Is Not My Kink) prevails, I may not like or understand it but each to their own.
Sadly with a lot of online chat you get the fantasists, those that want you to believe their way is the only way. Kink is in many ways like normal life, go with your gut, if it sounds stupid it usually is. Any relationship, be it kink or vanilla, is built on many factors, one being both parties are Read more… equals. You cannot be told to love someone in the same way you cannot be told to submit, you have to want them for them to happen and feel right. As other people have said, you have been messaged by chancers and wannabees, our advice would be to get to munches and events and meet the real kink world.