Personal details

Gender Man
Age 44
Status Single
Height 188cm
Weight 100kg
Body shape Average build
Eye colour Green
Hair colour Brown
Hair length Bald
Beard Shaved/no beard
Orientation Straight
Ethnicity Caucasian white
Origin England
Pubic Hair Part shaved
Body hair Some hair
Zodiac signs Capricorn
Glasses
Smoker
Tattoos
Piercings

About me

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Description

Dominant by nature, fun and firm by nurture. Genuinely a trustworthy person with confidence in my abilities and highly valuing privacy. In my subs I want to see honesty, integrity, drive, and independence before anything sexual occurs. Ideally I'm looking for D/s relationships with women, no interest in M/s or men. If you are not interested in serving, I am not interested in sex. One thing I cannot stand is disrespect, it offends and annoys me when people feel the need to be rude and intentionally intimidating. If you become close to me I'm fiercely loyal and giving, a side of me that a lot of people don't see. Above anything else, what I most enjoy is the development of the person, guidance, training, nurturing, and helping them to be the best version of themselves possible.

Fantasies

A big fantasy of mine would be to have sex with a complete stranger. Knowing very little about them. Purely on a sexual level.

Long term I long for a sub to serve, obey and satisfy me. I have no issue with them being switch.....just not with me. I dont do jealous and pretty easy going.

My roles & archetype

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What to do

Let him make his own choices and don't get involved. The further away from someone who beat you, you can get, the better!

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Submitting to a Dom doesn't absolve a sub of their responsibilities. There are some strict slave rules which need following. Find out what they are in the magazine.
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northern_dom Some great advice for people here. I sometimes get so frustrated at the expectancy of us to be mind readers. Put on your big boy/girl pants and speak up or things will only get worse. Communication is absolutely vital. Some great advice for people here. I sometimes get so frustrated at the expectancy of us to be mind readers. Put on your big boy/girl pants and speak up or things will only get worse. Communication is absolutely vital.
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Hard limits not respected

Yak like has been said before by others, your limits are your limits. For what ever reason you have them he must respect that. Think of it like this. You draw the outline of the picture. He can colour in the picture how he sees fit but must never cross the lines that you set out initially. He must Read more… respect you and your limits. Using a hard limit as a punishment is never acceptable.

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Dominant by nature, fun and firm by nurture. Genuinely a trustworthy person with confidence in my abilities and highly valuing privacy. In my subs I want to see honesty, integrity, drive, and independence before anything sexual occurs. Ideally I'm looking for D/s relationships with women, no Read more… interest in M/s or men. If you are not interested in serving, I am not interested in sex. One thing I cannot stand is disrespect, it offends and annoys me when people feel the need to be rude and intentionally intimidating. If you become close to me I'm fiercely loyal and giving, a side of me that a lot of people don't see. Above anything else, what I most enjoy is the development of the person, guidance, training, nurturing, and helping them to be the best version of themselves possible.
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Subs or Doms, who has the control?

In a nut shell, personally speaking, for me the control lies with the sub. As a Dom it's my job to push her but within her limits. She sets them. I must follow them. I must respect her limits at all times and if she uses Red or safe words no matter what I am doing I must stop. I personally would be Read more… ashamed to get a sub to use her safe word or Red. The sub offers to allow the Dom to control certain aspects. The Dom can't just decide he is going to do that. The Dom ends up in a position of power and control but that is given by the sub. I do admit my ways and values are old school so something may have changed in recent years.

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Find out what Molly says when a new Fetish.com member asks for help on explaining hard and soft limits - and if it's acceptable to push boundaries.
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northern_dom For me a huge red flag is when someone says they have no limits. Very often the end of conversation is nigh after hearing that. For me a huge red flag is when someone says they have no limits. Very often the end of conversation is nigh after hearing that.
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How to be more open

Sorry to hear about the issues with your mum. This worked for me. When you clam up, when she is winning, don't let her. Strive to be better as a person. Strive to give people the chances she didn't. Be the opposite of her. Take a deep breath and tell someone you trust, first time will be hard but Read more… you just shared your issues here which is a huge step in the right direction. Good luck! You can do it. Your opinion counts too!

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Hey

Just be yourself the same as you would in any other relationship. Above all else be respectful and honest.

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We show you how to get involved with water bondage – and, most importantly, how to stay within your depth and do it safely. Read more in the magazine.
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northern_dom Pete its only dangerous if you dont know what you're doing. For the people who do know the ins and outs of breath play the rewards can be fantastic. Ask any sub about the rush they get when they have been choked out. Ironically choking someone out is a blood flow thing not a breath thing. Pete its only dangerous if you dont know what you're doing. For the people who do know the ins and outs of breath play the rewards can be fantastic. Ask any sub about the rush they get when they have been choked out. Ironically choking someone out is a blood flow thing not a breath thing.
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New

Hey firstly welcome here. Good on you for wanting to try new things....... Who wants to stay vanilla huh? I'm sure one of the regulars in chat is in a wheelchair too and lives this lifestyle and had a lot of fun doing it. Maybe pop into the chat room once your comfy to do so and join in. Would be Read more… great to see a new face in there. Good luck!

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Ever seen the letters YKINMKBYKIOK and wondered what it meant? Find out what it means and why kink shaming isn't cool in the magazine.
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northern_dom I don't think it's just kink shaming that is wrong. Body shaming also. Be happy and enjoy YOUR life. Don't let what other say effect you. I don't think it's just kink shaming that is wrong. Body shaming also. Be happy and enjoy YOUR life. Don't let what other say effect you.
Like · 07.10.2018 18:42:42