50 year old white professional, highly educated, gentlemanly, laid back, fit, attractive. Experienced Dom, heavily into bondage, discipline, and all forms of power exchange based on control.

Kink has been a lifelong interest of mine for as long as I can remember. I am naturally dominant and my inclinations make me lean towards D/s dynamics that are firmly rooted in power play and are of course safe, sane, and consensual. Some of my favorite kinks are (but are not limited to) bondage, cum control, discipline/punishment dynamics, and light ***. My experience in the lifestyle is extensive and varied, but I haven't had a real life submissive in a long time.

I am currently looking to meet submissive women aged 21-45 to eventually build a D/s relationship and/or partnership based on some negotiable form of power exchange that meets mutual needs and expectations. I am happy to connect with experienced subs, but contact with those who are entirely new in their approach to the lifestyle would be extremely welcome as well, as I very much enjoy the role of mentor/teacher/trainer. My style of dominance is one of strict discipline, combined with a loving/caring side. I relish the deep connection that takes place during aftercare just as much as I delight in the physical intensity of the session that precedes it. And I fully embrace and take advantage of the control that is entrusted to me just as much as I strive to safeguard the emotional and physical health of my sub and to encourage her improvement and growth as a person.

I welcome discussions and exchanges of ideas of all kinds. I am a good conversationalist and excellent listener, and am eager to slowly build mutual understanding and trust through meaningful dialogue. However, while virtual long distance D/s relationships can be fun and inebriating at first, I find them ultimately frustrating when virtual connection ends up being the only possible kind of connection. Consequently, I would not be interested in developing any relationships that don't have as a common future goal that of an eventual fruition in real life.

Another important fact that anyone willing to converse with me should know from the start is that I am currently involved in a vanilla relationship that has ran its course on the sexual level but is still standing for a number of reasons. Its open nature, however, leaves the door open to personal involvement with other individuals without the need to be secretive about it.