First time ever on a "dating" website so new to all this.
I'm 28, male from South London. 6ft 2 tall with an average body, it's not model standard but I'm happy with it.
Brown hair but with a "strawberry blonde beard" blue eyes. I'm sure I'll update this when I see what others include

Desires and Fantasies
Hey everyone,
For years I've struggled to put a label against who I am but the last year I've come to realise labels mean nothing because everyone at sometime spills over the edge of that little box that we are meant to fit into. The closest I can describe myself as is a pansexual switch but that I still feel is a little ambiguous, so if you want to know more about me on a more personal level ask away.

I can't really out up a list of what turns me on because it varies from day to day. I can wake up one day and feel dominant and be turned on by the thought of having a sub serve me, then the next hour I'm fantasizing about being hog tied and spit roasted by a group of men. I'm a sissy one day, I feel dominant the next and who knows what I feel like the next day. There are a few things that always get me excited whether I'm giving, receiving or watching and they are:

rope
rubber
anal
nipple torture
wax
paddles
gags of any kind
At the moment I'm looking for that special someone who is on the same wavelength as me, you know that person who when you're not with you constantly feel sick waiting to hear from them again, constantly checking your messages incase you didn't feel your phone vibrate in the last two minutes since you last checked. I've been single for a whole now and I feel it's time I found that person who I can be myself with. Looks are not important to me as long as I'm sexually attracted to them and that comes in many forms. What is important is someone who makes me laugh, someone who will listen to me waffle on about nithing important. Also they have to be sexually open as i am. Ive tried one to many times in a vanilla relationship and I know people often say sex isn't the main part of a relationship and they maybe right on some levels if you don't have the initial connection then it doesn't matter how great the sex is it won't work but it also works the other way. I can't live without my sexual needs met and they are kinky and freaky to a vanilla so my need won't be met. Anyway clearly I'm waffling I just want a best friend who I can fall in love with which will also get my heart racing and take me to sexual places I've never been.