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Gender Man
Age 53
Status Single
Zodiac signs Scorpio

About me

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"It is better to have loved and lost, than to have never loved at all."
Do you think the nimrod who philosphised that has ever been in love?...
Answers on a card.

My roles & archetype

Fetish.com gives you…


Fetish.com is like an appetizing smorgasbord in London with lots of hot guys to meet up with. Have a look around first if you prefer to see who’s around, or if you know what you want, search by selecting the right category "Kinky Dating”. Nobody stays alone here for long! Fetish.com has tons going on!

Ora
icon-wio Ora completed their confessions
  • 05.09.2018 19:38:50
  • Male (53)
  • London
  • Single
How did you get switched on to Fetish.com?
I was living in NYC and a friend broke up with her Dom and we got close and she wanted me to be her dom, as she said it came to me naturally.
I rea, spoke and listened and I enjoy the closeness you get from it.
Ora
icon-wio Ora completed their confessions
  • 05.09.2018 19:38:50
  • Male (53)
  • London
  • Single
What types of kinksters are you hoping to meet here on Fetish.com?
Looking for someone who wants to be partners, and in public enjoy life and in private be Dom and sub.
Ora
icon-wio Ora completed their confessions
  • 05.09.2018 19:38:50
  • Male (53)
  • London
  • Single
When did you discover you were kinky? Tell us about your journey through kink and BDSM.
When I was living in NYC about 18 years ago. Since then I have had various D's and vanilla relationships and lived with my slave for 2 years.
Ora
icon-wio Ora completed their confessions
  • 05.09.2018 19:38:50
  • Male (53)
  • London
  • Single
What was your first kinky experience? What did you learn from it?
I learnt that it was natural, but only because we spoke a lot and discussed things before we "partaked" of one another.
Ora
icon-wio Ora completed their confessions
  • 05.09.2018 19:38:50
  • Male (53)
  • London
  • Single
What qualities are most important for you in a relationship?( BDSM, kinky or vanilla)
Trust, honesty and COMMUNICATIONS. In case its not clear COMUNICATION...
Ora
icon-wio Ora completed their confessions
  • 05.09.2018 19:38:50
  • Male (53)
  • London
  • Single
Tell us a bit about your kinky lifestyle. Do you go to fetish clubs and munches, are you in a 24/7 relationship...?
I have always found it somewhat difficult meeting others in the lifestyle as I am intensively private. That is not to say I want some fun, I am looking for someone to enjoy life with and the added D/s aspect to be the cherry on the cake.
Ora
icon-wio Ora completed their confessions
  • 05.09.2018 19:38:50
  • Male (53)
  • London
  • Single
What BDSM skills do you have (i.e. rope bondage, play piercing, etc)? What are you interested in learning more about or get better at?
I enjoy tie & tease, verbal humiliation, floggers, paddles and toys.
Nothing more pleasurable than a woman who wants a collar and leash and to also scene.
Ora
icon-wio Ora completed their confessions
  • 05.09.2018 19:38:50
  • Male (53)
  • London
  • Single
D/s: Dom/me or sub? Top or bottom? Caregiver or little? Owner or slave? Do you switch or are you unsure?
I do not switch.
Ora
icon-wio Ora completed their confessions
  • 05.09.2018 19:38:50
  • Male (53)
  • London
  • Single
What turns your kinky brain and body on?
I like a woman who can engage intellectually and convey what she wants. Some think this is about me (the Dom), but to me a sub gives more when you give her what she wants.
Ora
icon-wio Ora completed their confessions
  • 05.09.2018 19:38:50
  • Male (53)
  • London
  • Single
What was your most memorable kinky experience?
3 days in Pittsburgh hills with my ex slave, relaxing, exploring and enjoying her.
Ora
icon-wio Ora completed their confessions
  • 05.09.2018 19:38:50
  • Male (53)
  • London
  • Single
Are you out or in-the-closet about your kinks, sexual orientation or gender identity? Why?
I am a private man and never understood those who have a partner and discuss her peccadillos with their buds over a beer. I am male and hetro.
Ora
icon-wio Ora completed their confessions
  • 05.09.2018 19:38:50
  • Male (53)
  • London
  • Single
Do you find talking about sex and kink easy or difficult? Why?
When you establish rapport I do not find any topic to be difficult.
Ora
icon-wio Ora completed their confessions
  • 05.09.2018 19:38:50
  • Male (53)
  • London
  • Single
What accomplishment are you most proud of? (Can be something to do with kink or anything you want!)
Most of the clients I have worked for have reticently allowed me to move on, which is a good sign and now at 54 I am ready to retire, settle and stop travelling - find someone to enjoy what I have achieve/accumulated.
Ora
icon-wio Ora completed their confessions
  • 05.09.2018 19:38:50
  • Male (53)
  • London
  • Single
Is physical appearance or fashion important for you and your kinks?
Physical attraction is important - that does not mean curvy, stick model etc., as I believe each woman has beauty - its what any one finds appealing in another is different.
I like my woman to dress well and enjoy it.
Ora
icon-wio Ora completed their confessions
  • 05.09.2018 19:38:50
  • Male (53)
  • London
  • Single
What do you like to read? Any favourite kinky authors?
A history buff who is grateful to be born and raised in Europe and to study here.
Would recommend Area51 by Robert Doherty (he of Elementary fame) as it is thought provoking.