I'm in a LT relationship where we explore various non vanilla flavours together; however, since moving to the North East of Scotland and starting a family feel a bit far removed from any groups or like minded people. We are joining for a connection to the community and a forum for discussion and exchange of ideas and to maybe discover more going on.
I get the most out of being a sub when in play, but can switch; and usually dominant when it comes to vanilla (pardon the pun) lol. We all be what we are. :-)