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Gender Woman
Age 29
Status Not single
Zodiac signs Leo

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I am just looking for friends that I can talk about sex with. I'm not looking for a relationship or a connection, just open mindedness.

I used to be submissive, but I was abused by my dom. It sucked but it was also years ago. I haven't tried any kind of bdsm since then and I keep finding myself fantasizing about being tied up and used like a whore. I also miss being told that I'm a good girl and all the rewards that come with it ?.

I want to introduce this kind of play once in awhile with my fiance but I'm not comfortable enough with myself yet. Hence why I am here lol!

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Rene724
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  • 30.09.2018 6:15:17
  • Female (29)
  • Panama City
  • Not single
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  • 18.08.2018 6:58:16
  • Female (29)
  • Panama City
  • Not single
New Domme/Sub couple

I was a sub for a long time. You are welcome to message me and ask me anything.
I'm kind of doing the same thing here, except I'm trying to get back into it lol but I've found that getting the viewpoint of others has helped me alot in figuring out what kind of dynamic I want with my partner

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  • 09.08.2018 19:35:58
  • Female (29)
  • Panama City
  • Not single
Reverse Glory Holes?

I volunteer 😁

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  • 08.08.2018 4:05:40
  • Female (29)
  • Panama City
  • Not single
Maybe I'm Doing Something Wrong?

Just be patient Sara. If it is something that he really likes, he will come around eventually. Ultimately the real question is, do you love him enough to stay with him even if he no longer wants this lifestyle?
My fiance was patient with me after almost 2 years. I was in an abusive relationship Read more… before him and it turned me off to all things bdsm. He didn't pressure me or force anything on me. It took almost 2 years, but I'm starting to warm back up to it now. So just be patient and show that you love him. Maybe try to find some commonground kink in the meantime

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  • 07.08.2018 4:43:28
  • Female (29)
  • Panama City
  • Not single
The term "brat"

Like I said, I just wanted everyone's opinion. I am a bit more light hearted when it comes to d/s games than most people and never heard "brat" described as a kink before, so I was curious lol. I'm still on the fence about what I am though

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  • 07.08.2018 4:37:22
  • Female (29)
  • Panama City
  • Not single
The term "brat"

If I listed all the ways I could be punished, then this post would be rather long, wouldn't it? I was more focused on what people felt about the word brat and how it represents disobedient subs

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The term "brat"
So I was checking out all the 'kink links' (idk what they are called, but I thought kink link was cute) and I decided to put "brat" on my profile. Here's the thing, I don't really like the term brat. I feel like it's childish and refers to someone who has no respect at all. Yet the description was Read more…perfect for me. I mean what's the point of being a sub if you don't disobey and get spanked once in awhile, right? Idk maybe I'm just a bit of a masochist at heart sometimes. What is your take on the term?
LikeEboniza, VictoriaBlisse · 24 Replies
DomRich
DomRich Lol something about giving a brat corner and no eye contact. The look on the face when they realise that's coming is priceless
So much better to with hold than to 'punish' when it's often the 'punishment' they really want
I do miss that dynamic and nuturing part of a relationship Lol something about giving a brat corner and no eye contact. The look on the face when they realise that's coming is priceless
So much better to with hold than to 'punish' when it's often the 'punishment' they really want
I do miss that dynamic and nuturing part of a relationship
Like · 17.08.2018 16:10:34
latinabg
latinabg I've had mixed feelings reading the responses to this thread.
I'm still exploring my role and what this means to me so rather than a little I identify as a babygirl. This at times means that I can be a brat.... for me this is a way of seeking attention. To meet me most people in my life assume Read more… that's I'd be a Domme. I've always been a grown up (see that little kid helping the grown ups at the party... that's me) So I find it hard to ask for attention. Really really hard. So maybe with time my bratty nature will diminish to the point where I can just ask Daddy for attention. Until then 😋😋😋😋😋
LikeVictoriaBlisse · 17.08.2018 10:50:24
DomTD
DomTD I also think that there's no blanket term though, since everyone's personality is as unique as their fingerprint. I also think that there's no blanket term though, since everyone's personality is as unique as their fingerprint.
LikeVictoriaBlisse, Rene724 · 07.08.2018 12:41:51
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  • 03.08.2018 5:08:46
  • Female (29)
  • Panama City
  • Not single
Nebulophilia (Arousal to Smoke and Fog)

This is a thing?!?!? Holy crap, my fiance always laughs at me because I stupid excited when the fog rolls in. We have a small town about 30 minutes outside the city that has a tiny adorable downtown area. It's right on the bayou so when the fog rolls in, it looks like something out of an old horror Read more… movie. We usually try to go out of our way to drive through there everytime the weather looks foggy

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  • 27.07.2018 22:31:04
  • Female (29)
  • Panama City
  • Not single
Favourite Role Play Fantasy

This is a pretty good rp fantasy. I may have to steal it lol

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  • 27.07.2018 21:42:41
  • Female (29)
  • Panama City
  • Not single
Cosplay | A Beginner's Guide

We used to think of comic fans as geeky, nerdy and, well, pretty damn unsexy. However, cosplay, a growing fetish within the kinkster community, is shaking up the scene and turning fantasy into reality. Here, we explore exactly what cosplay is...
When we think about the term ‘geek’, we used to Read more… picture a person who was probably obese, wearing thick glasses, with poor hygiene and who has an extensive collection of Doctor Who comics.
However, times have changed and with the advent of ‘geek chic,’ there's a whole new era of geek supremacy. No longer relegated to the comic shops and conventions, it seems that everyone has embraced their inner geek. This phenomenon has extended to the fantasy and fetish scene with superheroes, heroines and even video game characters being a staple element of the fetish arena.
Costumes and cosplay
It's one element of a fan genre that has turned fetish. Cosplay itself is a phenomenon where the participants will dress, and act, as their favourite science fiction, or fantasy, character.
This can involve extensive preparations in terms of putting together a costume with make up, and copying the actions and facial expressions of a comic book hero.
This may be done in the privacy of one’s own home, with photographs and videos being posted online, or at comic conventions which hold cosplay competitions or festivals. The most experienced practitioners of cosplay can appear virtually identical to their comic book creations.
Exponents of cosplay claim that there is nothing kinky or sexual about cosplay, but this isn't necessarily true. One only needs to see the attention that a nubile woman dressed as Lara Croft gets at a comic convention to realise that the rules of sexual attraction operate in cosplay as much as in any other domain of life.
All of that Lycra, rubber and (in many cases) whips must be doing something to the way in which geeks, and the rest of us mortals, think about sex.
Cosplayers at the Yorkshire Cosplay Convention at Sheffield Arena. Photo: Phillip Maguire / Shutterstock.com
Cosplay and fetish
Increasingly, cosplay is becoming part of the fetish scene. Mainstream sex shops sell costumes which have a superhero theme, and this is becoming an increasingly popular fetish. Indeed, it's possible to bring cosplay into your fetish life in a number of ways.
One popular way of using cosplay in a fetish scene is to develop scenarios which are not too far from the fictional scenes being played out in comic books, or movies. The original Batman television series, for example, included scenes where Catwoman would place Batman in rope bondage and torment him with her sexuality.
It does not take a great leap of imagination to see that this scenario is not only grounded in some idea of fetish but also that it could be extrapolated to a BDSM scenario. Catwoman already has the latex catsuit, mask and whip of a dominatrix.
Another way that cosplay can be used in fetish scenes is to make the dressing and transformation of the submissive part of the scene. For example, playing at the capture and transformation of a slave can be enhanced with cosplay. Whole hunting scenes can be developed involving dominatrices and slaves which can involve their capture and transformation.
This can involve science fiction scenarios, perhaps a race of alien females that wish to capture human males and transform them into sexually compliant drones.
The future of cosplay and fetish
In the most developed cosplay and role play, scenarios, whole fictional towns and villages are constructed in real life to allow an extended period of fantasy play. In the fetish world, for some time the OWK (Other World Kingdom) offered a similar experience but one in which it was possible for a male slave to really experience a ‘kingdom’ somewhere in Eastern Europe where men were, in actuality, the slaves of dominant women.
Perhaps the worlds of fetish and cosplay are not too far apart after all, and that we may even see a future ‘mash-up’ of cosplay and OWK-type locations in the real world.
Does the idea of cosplay get you going? What characters turn you on? Share all with the community in the comments. And, if you're not already a Fetish.com member (why not?), sign up below. It's free!

Rene724
Rene724 I actually get alot of my costumes from wish.com. It's cheap quality but it's also a cheap price lol. We just rp at home anyway, and since we are only trying to impress each other we go cheap and let our imagination do the rest lol.
I just figured I'd post this suggestion in case anyone was thinking about dressing up, but you know, who wants to spend $200 on a 'maybe I might be into this' lol. Also Halloween clearance racks, so keep your eyes out lol I actually get alot of my costumes from wish.com. It's cheap quality but it's also a cheap price lol. We just rp at home anyway, and since we are only trying to impress each other we go cheap and let our imagination do the rest lol.
I just figured I'd post this suggestion in case anyone was thinking about dressing up, but you know, who wants to spend $200 on a 'maybe I might be into this' lol. Also Halloween clearance racks, so keep your eyes out lol
Like · 27.07.2018 21:42:41
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  • 27.07.2018 18:49:31
  • Female (29)
  • Panama City
  • Not single
Male Domination and the Big Hard Dom Complex

BHD or Big Hard Dom is not always the colossal male domination problem you might think it is. The kink community is small and is often times the only place where someone can feel normal. Fetish.com writer Abi Brown explores why BHDs shouldn't just be kicked out and ostracized after their first Read more… offense.
Nobody likes a Big Hard Dom
Most people who have been knocking around the community for a while will have met a Big Hard Dom. There are a few archetypes. There’s the relatively inexperienced young man in his early twenties who wears a nasty-looking whip hooked to his belt. He is also incredibly keen to tell you his BDSM anecdotes without ever once seeming to consider how those subs felt, for example.
But they’re not all young. Another common model of the Big Hard Dom is the middle-aged pillar of the local kink community. He will proudly boast at munches about his consideration collars and the beneficent way he fixes the lives of the much younger women he deigns to play with.
Spotting a Big Hard Dom
You can spot a Big Hard Dom out in the wild pretty easily. They get their submissives to capitalize pronouns that refer to them in writing. They insist on being introduced as ‘Master So-and-So’ to anyone who asks their name. Additionally, they never really talk about what their partners' wants and needs are. It’s generally all about the pain they want to inflict. The Big Hard Dom is almost always male. Almost always dressed in black leather. And almost always in it for themselves.
Why is the Big Hard Dom such a problem?
There are a few stories of negative experiences in fetish clubs and kink spaces that seem to come up again and again. This type of male domination assumes that a female sub’s is the Big Hard Dom's right. Rather than something that is given to them, which is often the cause of these problems. People who don’t consider the nuances of consent. Or who push at someone’s limits right from the off with no negotiation.
Missing the steps
Sometimes, a Big Hard Dom is missing stairs: people are aware that he is a problem. But have become so used to coping with it, they’ve started making excuses for him.
Even when they’re not missing stairs, Big Hard Doms can be irritating and troublesome. They can put new people off becoming more involved in the community. Moreover, these male domination fakes can lead inexperienced subs, who don’t know how to spot them, into dangerous or damaging situations.
It would be disingenuous to suggest that only new submissives fall prey to their charms. My most major Big Hard Dom experience was some five years after I first turned up on the scene. It lasted for a surprisingly large number of months before I came to my senses.
How a community should deal with a Big Hard Dom
We’re not always in a position to just throw people out on their ear. Not all BHDs deserve to be discarded, either. But two most important things we can always do are:
Get someone they trust, admire or look up to, to talk to them about the things they do that are problematic. Don’t let them get away with pushing limits and boundaries. Call them on their bullshit every single time it comes to light.
Keep an eye on the people they’re playing with, and anyone new to the scene they seem to be making a beeline for.
If your local Big Hard Dom has missing stair tendencies, let them know about the problems other people have had with them. Be pretty gentle about this at first. You might find that the subs in question don’t want to hear it. Just make sure they know there are people around to support them if they want it.
Most BHDs aren’t dangerous. Your average 21-year-old with a bullwhip and an over-inflated sense of his own importance and male domination will grow out of it before ere long. Frankly, the best thing you can do about him is to laugh a bit at how ridiculous he looks. Then wait for him to mature a little. It’s worth keeping an eye on examples of the genre in general. For the good of your local community and for the other people in it.
HELP! I think I might be the Big Hard Dom...
If an uncomfortable number of the things I’ve touched on here ring true for you: I’d like to both thank and congratulate you. No, really. The fact that you’ve spotted it. That you have a strong enough sense of self-awareness to let this post hit home is a sure sign that you’re actually, at heart, a decent person.
The best advice I can give you is this: listen. Listen to yourself, and to the people you’re playing with. Do you really want to sleep with people who can take superhumanly intense beatings without complaint and never forget to capitalise Your trousers in writing? Or have you just got swept up in a whole bunch of stuff from books and porn clips? Have real, honest conversations with your partners about their fantasies. About what they want to get out of a BDSM relationship. Try to put their needs first while you’re playing, even if that’s not how it looks from their perspective.
You might be surprised by what happens next.
Abi Brown is a freelance writer and general pen-for-hire devoted to sexual deviancy, far-left politics and wearing too much jewellery. Find her at her website or @see_abi_write.
What are your experiences of Big Hard Doms? Tell us how you cut them down to size by commenting below or in the Fetish.com forum.

Rene724
Rene724 I am conflicted about this article. To start off, I used to be a sub in this very situation and my head did get a bit effed up. I wish he would have respected me more, but I also understand that I should respect his fetish despite the fact that we weren't as compatible as we thought. I think there Read more… are subs out there who would actually enjoy this kind of treatment. I am not one of them lol. I still don't want anyone to feel like they aren't able to express themselves, but I do hope that they are able to communicate just how hard they want to go, so that there is no misunderstanding.
Like · 27.07.2018 18:49:31
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  • 27.07.2018 18:22:21
  • Female (29)
  • Panama City
  • Not single
IT’S HERE. This could possibly be the kinkiest music playlist EVER made. Check it out and see if your song made the grade - but BE CAREFUL - it’s made to turn you on. You might just end up having a spontaneous session of hardcore BDSM. You’ve been warned…
Rene724
Rene724 I love almost everything on this playlist 💚💚💚!!!
Thank you for putting this together. We always try to make a playlist but never have time to, this is awesome! I love almost everything on this playlist 💚💚💚!!!
Thank you for putting this together. We always try to make a playlist but never have time to, this is awesome!
Like · 27.07.2018 18:22:21
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  • 25.07.2018 3:48:11
  • Female (29)
  • Panama City
  • Not single
I am just looking for friends that I can talk about sex with. I'm not looking for a relationship or a connection, just open mindedness.

I used to be submissive, but I was abused by my dom. It sucked but it was also years ago. I haven't tried any kind of bdsm since then and I keep finding myself Read more… fantasizing about being tied up and used like a whore. I also miss being told that I'm a good girl and all the rewards that come with it ?.

I want to introduce this kind of play once in awhile with my fiance but I'm not comfortable enough with myself yet. Hence why I am here lol!
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  • 24.07.2018 6:12:52
  • Female (29)
  • Panama City
  • Not single
Object insertion

My muscles down there get really tight if we go too long without having sex. Plus that on top of him being super sensitive, we have stuck all kinds of things in my vag. Warm water bottles are my favorite though. Or when he finally gets his whole hand in up to his wrist and tries to open his hand 😻😻 Read more… oh lort yes 💚💚💚

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