I'm 18 and living in Airdrie, Scotland (near to Glasgow). I'm fairly new to the community and have only been in two long distance BDSM relationships so I'm hoping to find someone close by.
I enjoy reading and swimming and cooking as hobbies and I have a fair few kinks I want to explore. I'm a dom/daddy/master and looking for a sub/little/pet or a combination of those.
Feel free to add me on kik but please don't be rude or kink shame as you'll be blocked.
I'm very much into CNC, breath play, ropes and such. More detail on those if you message me and we get to know each other. I am open to long distance but hopefully I'll be able to find someone close by. You'll get my clothed photos if you message me and we hit off.
I'm open to making friends so feel free to drop me a message.
I think that RobustLove said it best. I'd be lying if I said I had anything better to add.
I'd maybe consider in the factor of a lot of pleasure your sub was going through as well though. A few times with my long distance partner an intense session, even without pain/punishment, would end up with Read more… her crying and feeling vulnerable that I had been able to cause that pleasure even from as far away.
Although having no actual in person experience this thread has been really informative and it's given me a few points to consider for the future.