I'm a 29year old white and coucation to a lovely vanilla man so I like to think of myself as in late middle-age. I look at the number 29,

I'm a private woman who values autonomy and independence and I'm not a social animal, although on those occasions when nocturnal forays appeal I'm definitely of the 'dark sweaty club in a backstreet railway arch' inclination rather than the glitzy, glittery spangles and make-up and 'look at me, attention seeking costume, hedonistic, woo hoo clubber' type.

I'm looking for a very long-term / lifetime, M/s and BDSM fetish relationship with an intelligent, highly submissive man; an adult male who has grown up rather than just grown big, harbouring perhaps untapped secret sluttish desires, who wishes to be owned by a man she trusts and used as his sex toy, enjoys serving or will if she has the chance, and needs to please a man who appreciates being pleased. There are things you secretly yearn to do but you need to be cajoled, coached, directed and pushed firmly in the direction you wish to go, and you aren't interested in playing childish mind games.

I am prepared to invest a great deal of time, effort and energy in building a lasting relationship with the right man.

I need compatibility and long-term potential, with the commitment to make things work.

There is no upper age limit.

I will not do:

Breath Play
Scat
The usual proscriptions (animals and children etc.)
I will not play those silly, childish ' I may I may not / will I or won't I, do I or don't I' mind games that so many men enjoy.

I will not waste a minute more than is necessary on a man I can see is not interested in me and I will not engage in a unilateral conversation with the same. I expect communication that suggests our conversation is likely to go somewhere.

I'm not looking for occasional meetings for plastic, 'I'm bored with my husband and want something more but only on certain afternoons' BDSM, make-believe dangerous sex of the risible men writing sort (think Fifty Shades of Grey and other trash of that ilk) or 'let's pretend', 'who's a naughty girl then' spanking games.

I don't do role play (I don't need other people's fantasies as a vehice

I'm not out to deceive or cuckold anyone I do not know and who has done me no harm or if you are married your wife must know about me and be happy with our arrangement. will know about you.

Are there any women left who might be acceptable?

I will not respond to contacts from man without a recent full face photograph in their profiles or at least attached to his message.

Desires and Fantasies
well i would like to sing or dancing at anywhere i founded my happiest desire and similarly i like to go beach in a weekend and like to watch tv, sports, cook, read and many more,