I am both,femdom and sub. I've been really tired of the soft core 50,shades be. I like acting as a dumb blonde. here lately, role play as you may call it. Makes me feel weak and helpless. Seriously been in my life style for a long time. And can't understand why everything has been romanized. I am not seeking love through any course of punishment or punishing. I am about findom and piggies. Either or.