I'm brand new when it comes to the whole BDSM world and the things that come under it. I'm still finding my feet for now and giruing out what makes me brain tick, and meeting nice people who I get along with on the way would probably help with figuring out what I like!
I know for certain I'm most likely a submissive man, dominant, assertive and confident women turn me on. Putting myself in the more dominant position if anything turns me off.