"...and she tried to love him. But she complained that he uttered such ordinary words, that he could never say the magic phrase which would open her being." ~ Anaïs Nin, Under a Glass
“No one is more arrogant toward women, more aggressive or scornful, than the man who is anxious about his virility.” ~ Simone de Beavoir, "The Second
"As for women, I have always found that the one I was in love with smelled good, and the more copious her sweat the sweeter I found it." ~ Giacomo Girolamo Casanova de Seingalt
I am an intelligent, imaginative, submissive professional woman who seeks a mental connection with someone. I want a meaningful relationship and to find someone to help me take the next step in exploring aspects of submission. I am sensual, attractive, and appreciate intelligent conversation. If you are passionate about life, living, and people then we will probably get along. If you have thoughts about Anaïs Nin, or have written about your own desires, or enjoyed seeing “The Handmaiden” we probably have things to talk about.
I love music and good food (I was a sommelier) and believe that all the senses need to be involved with everything, I also have an acute sense of attention to detail.
I have embraced this world as I realise I have always been submissive in my relationships and had kinks but have not always been understood. I do not desire someone to just beat me for their pleasure but for my correction. Although I am submissive I understand that it is the mental and sensual awareness that are important as well.
Men who are not interested in learning about me, or those who want to tell me how to how to behave from the beginning are wasting their time and mine. My submission is a gift which I chose to share when I know I can trust you. If I trust you, you will find out more about what interests me in more private surroundings.
Please feel free to say “Hello" ..