Thank You for all the feedback. A little more background may help in responses. I will use rope bondage as an example (though this isn't a problem) During a scene and in just discussion she LOVES IT!!! I mean white hot, hell yeah! Scene goes off without a hitch, great fun. It is in the aftermath Read more… that her brain starts beating her up BECAUSE she enjoyed it. I have asked her about my style of aftercare and whether it is sufficient to which the answer is a resounding yes. Now due to our current situation some types of play have been put on the back burner so to speak to help deal with the fact that in some of our play "Extended" aftercare may be needed.