Personal details

Gender Man
Age 21
Status Single
Height 183cm
Weight 81kg
Body shape Athletic
Eye colour Brown
Hair colour Brown
Hair length Short
Beard Shaved/no beard
Orientation Straight
Ethnicity Caucasian white
Origin Ireland
Pubic Hair Part shaved
Body hair None
Zodiac signs Aries
Glasses
Tattoos
Piercings

About me

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Description

20 years old, experienced in bondage and shibari, dominant loves a restrained sub and caring master but stern when needs to be. Can hold down a conversation with charismatic and open discussion
Would love to meet someone who can open out to me as I would to them.

Fantasies

A desire of mine is to have a relationship with a girl who is intelligent and can be trusted as well as trusting.
Must have a sense of humour and know that not everything is to be taken so seriously.

A fantasy of mine is to have walked in on a friend or neighbour who has either just had a shower or just got out of bed, then she plays hard to get but eventually falls submissive and wants me to pleasure her until she can't take anymore.

Another is to have a submissive but playful girlfriend that can wait for me to come to her but not give her all I'm worth in one go she has to work for it, treats are for good girl punishment is for bad, this could include sensual bondage session as a treat or the sit and wait game as a punishment ?

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How did you get switched on to Fetish.com?
Searching in bondage/fetishwear websites ?how much more honest can you get haha
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What types of kinksters are you hoping to meet here on Fetish.com?
I am hoping to meet a sexy, submissive girl who can help me fulfill fantasies which I will do for her and if all goes well have a relationship with.
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When did you discover you were kinky? Tell us about your journey through kink and BDSM.
13 years old I started to understand but it was the day I turned 16 that my ex introduced bondage and S&M into our sexy lives. After that first time with bdsm included I started to research all that I could (different positions, toys, outfits, activities) and this got me hooked. I wanted to try a Read more… dom/sub relationship and my ex just looked at me like I was insane a few day after she left me. I don't think she was planning for it to get to that stage.
I then started talking with friends at college about it and a few had the same thought train as me so we went to a bdsm/fetish club in a nearby city. I had a lot of fun and felt comfortable around all these new people because they didn't look at me like a freak when I mentioned fantasies and what my desired relationship would be.
Now it's just a matter of finding the right woman to trust and of course be there for if she needs me.
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What was your first kinky experience? What did you learn from it?
I was 13 years old and everyone a few days later looked at me like I had just killed someone, but the girl I lost my v to wasn't complaining ? haha
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What qualities are most important for you in a relationship?( BDSM, kinky or vanilla)
We both classed it as "not bad at all" which made us laugh
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Tell us a bit about your kinky lifestyle. Do you go to fetish clubs and munches, are you in a 24/7 relationship...?
I would like a trusted but also trusting, submissive and intelligent woman who knows that there's no fun in throwing all cards down on the table first time, I want to explore these hidden desires, fantasies and turn ons.
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What BDSM skills do you have (i.e. rope bondage, play piercing, etc)? What are you interested in learning more about or get better at?
I have. It was about four weeks before I had joined the armed forces my friend asked if he could bring his girlfriend to mine cause dad was being frigid af haha. I said yes but what I didn't anticipate was when she brought over a few of her friends and their boyfriends. So all in all It kinda Read more… turned into an organisation with about 9 people including myself ?
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D/s: Dom/me or sub? Top or bottom? Caregiver or little? Owner or slave? Do you switch or are you unsure?
Devil I would say for definite. I have a fascination with all things that people say aren't real such as demons, angels, mythological creatures, the four horsemen of the apocalypse and last but not least my favourite The Undead. I kinda like the dark side more than light so if you happen to be Read more… either a fallen angel or cast out demonic then that would be a great start.
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What turns your kinky brain and body on?
Yes I am. I have had relationships in the past but as soon as you mention a word to do with kinks that's it out the door they go and I never hear from them again ?
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Tell us about your kinky fantasies!
Always inner values over appearance. You learn that in the early years of a life but it's whether you have the tenacity to take that on board. Having the inner values plus appearance well then that's just a bonus ?
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What was your most memorable kinky experience?
I once met a girl that turned out to be a Babestation model in a bar in London, she was sitting down not looking like she was enjoying herself and then I found out why. I walked over to her and asked if she was feeling okay she smiled and replied "no not really my friend ditched me in here to go Read more… party with a few lads at his house and by party you and I totally know what that means" I remember seeing a brief smile after that remark. She asked who I was and why I was in London. I told her that I had recently passed out of training for the army and was having a week trip to endure London and see a friend at Wellington barracks but he'd gone off with a girl to hers so I was in the same situation as her. We laughed and joked about how people can be docks to their friends just to please themselves. About half hour later I bought a myself and her a drink and we started judging people's dancing on the dance floor. After we finished our drinks she stated that she was leaving so I politely offered to order her a taxi she accepted this offer. Turned out that she lived quite close to where I was staying so I gave her my number and said that It would be nice to meet up for a coffee or lunch. Instead she offered me in to her house for a glass or two. We didn't even make it through the half the bottle ? I found out when she was taking her clothes off that she was a model so I intrigued ask her what modelling has she done in the past. she clearly without hesitation stated, "I work for a few erotica companies one main one called Babestation. My heart stopped beating for a second as I took in what I was hearing. Babestation, I was about to have sex with a babestation model. I couldn't believe it. All I can say without details was she was a great submissive and loved the way I caressed her body and pleasured her throughout the night. ???
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What accomplishment are you most proud of? (Can be something to do with kink or anything you want!)
Quite active near the start but has started to become dormant over the past few months but I would have to tell someone the reason why in person or privately.
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Is physical appearance or fashion important for you and your kinks?
Yes the whole babestation model ordeal
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What do you like to read? Any favourite kinky authors?
Yes I do I have been to at least 7 fetish clubs now

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