Yes, my profile pic is unflattering on purpose...Hi...I'm new to online forums like this. I just want to post about what I like, what I've already experienced, and blunders I've made in the past regarding sexual encounters. Not looking for anything with anyone on this site other than people who share these interests and can offer their own advice and stories. I'm not sending pictures, I'm not giving out phone numbers, and I'm not doing one night stands. I'm just curious about the community and am interested in learning more.

Desires and Fantasies
Submission to any degree that my partners wants or needs. On the whole, the less I am in control, the happier I am; at least sexually.

Bondage is something I have been interested in before I even understood what sexuality was. I was that weird child that would tie myself to a chair somehow and have to call my mom in the untie me when I did too well a job. I guess you could say I was born for it haha

I am bisexual, although my experiences with other girls has been sparse at best. I find, when engaging with the same sex, that I prefer to be the dominant party. It was a strange role reversal that I wasn't even aware I was capable of, but I enjoyed it thoroughly. But when it comes to males, I am extremely submissive. Well, kind of.

I'm not sure if this kink has a title of its own, but I am extremely turned on by fighting back or rejecting a command, just so my partner has to make me do what he wants. At the most extreme, it turns into rape-play, but this kind of dynamic saturates the majority of my relationship with my Dom.

After all of that kinkiness, however, I would also like to make it very clear that I am an adamant advocate for safety. Open and honest communication with any partner who may come to own me sexually is paramount. I've been in too many horrible situations to trust lightly anymore. Rape-play is exhilarating. Cases in which someone feels as if they are in actual danger - or in which the dominant party does not care about their Sub's safety - are in a different league entirely.