Hello~! I am Shiroineko AKA White Cat.

I am not female. Do not use female terms for my anatomy, female pronouns or anything you might think is even remotely female in nature.

I am a submissive, but I am not subservient.

First and foremost, I am a kitten. This means that I am bratty, confident, flirtatious, stubborn, argumentative, assertive.
I enjoy power, I will try to put you in your place.

If you are looking for someone that wants to serve you, will instantly submit, melts like butter at your every word, bends to your whim... Oh sweetheart, you are looking in absolutely the wrong direction.

However, when I am comfortable with someone, I am extremely cuddly, affectionate and playful.

I am not a masochist, but I do enjoy pain. I'm quite fussy in that I enjoy specific kinds of pain - for example, I'd take a crop over a paddle any day.
I enjoy sex but I don't necessarily associate it with BDSM, they can be completely separate entities or they can be combined. BDSM itself is very sexual and sensual, without the need for actual genital contact.

I am interested in finding people to play with, but I am not interested in No Strings Attached sexual activity.
I enjoy being sexually flirtatious but it doesn't necessarily mean that I actually want you to fuck me. I'm demisexual by nature and find people attractive on different levels, and the more vulnerable an activity makes me.. the more connected to you I have to be.

I am not new to BDSM as a concept, but I have been greatly lacking in play partners so I am shockingly inexperienced when it comes to the practical.
However, that does not mean that you should attempt to persuade me to engage in this or that if I have not expressed interest in something. I will not indulge you in your fetishes, I am not here to please you.
Though don't get me wrong, I love to learn and am always happy to explore new concepts.

If you're curious about me outside of BDSM, I'm basically just a huge geek, feel free to chat with me to learn more.

Desires and Fantasies
Here are things that I enjoy:
Petplay (duh)
Cropping
Wrist / ankle restraints
Dressing up
Crossdressing / wearing skirts for easy access
Being bent over things
Sensation play
Collars / leads
Spanking
Doll play
Sexual tension

I am totally new or a little bit experienced with these things, and want to do more:
Electroplay
Wax play
All manner of pretty things you can hit people with
Bondage
Rope / shibari
Roleplay
Flogging
Chikan
Zentai

I am 100% virgin to these things and curious, but don't know if I'll like it:
Sploshing / WAM

Hard limits AKA NO I WILL NOT LIKE THESE THINGS, FUCK OFF:
Anal
Blowjobs on cisgender men (jaw problems)
Scat
Knife play
Anything to do with my throat / neck, strangulation, breath play, etc.