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Gender Woman
Age 54
Status Single
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Zodiac sign Sagittarius

About me

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  • NSA (no strings...)
  • BDSM Lovers

Description

Looking for a respectful Dom/s relationship. I am a natural submissive but that doesn't mean I am naive or desperate. I enjoy the power play between Dom/s and the intimacy that the dynamic brings. I expect respect and gentleness outside of play. Whilst I am relatively new to this scene (3 years) I am clear on my wants and desires. If you think being a Dom is just an act of controlling me sexually to fulfill your own needs then you don't understand the dynamic so I would respectfully request you don't contact me. Stay safe everyone x

Desires and Fantasies
Consensual non Consensual play. Bondage, orgasm control, sensory deprivation and who knows where else this could go!

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  • 23.04.2021 17:12:01
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Looking for a respectful Dom/s relationship. I am a natural submissive but that doesn't mean I am naive or desperate. I enjoy the power play between Dom/s and the intimacy that the dynamic brings. I expect respect and gentleness outside of play. Whilst I am relatively new to this scene (3 years) I Read more… am clear on my wants and desires. If you think being a Dom is just an act of controlling me sexually to fulfill your own needs then you don't understand the dynamic so I would respectfully request you don't contact me. Stay safe everyone x
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  • 08.03.2021 20:54:01
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So after searching for a while I have found my Sir. He is patient with his training, despite my meltdowns due to my inexperience. I am exclusive to him and proud to be owned by him. I know we are just at the start of a beautiful journey where we will grow together ❤
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  • 21.09.2019 20:51:08
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Concensual non consensual

Maybe I should have been clearer in my initial post, my CNC fantasy is rape by a stranger, hence difficulty to do that without role playing

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  • 21.09.2019 20:35:13
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Concensual non consensual

Yes, that could work although I never struggle and protest so would still feel like role playing. I am naturally a compliant sub, that is my dilemma.

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Concensual non consensual
So ..... decided to chuck myself into this scene earlier this year and had an amazing few months with a fabulous Dom. One of my biggest turn ons is consensual not consensual sex but I hate role play (I.e pretending to be a 'character'). Any tips on how this can be achieved?
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Shybuthorny609 Maybe I should have been clearer in my initial post, my CNC fantasy is rape by a stranger, hence difficulty to do that without role playing Maybe I should have been clearer in my initial post, my CNC fantasy is rape by a stranger, hence difficulty to do that without role playing
Like · 21.09.2019 20:51:08
eyemblacksheep
eyemblacksheep you can be compliant and do CNC.
You don't need to fight or refuse.
So, obviously in CNC - generally - limits, safewords, etc. all out of the window. Gone. Orrrr... at least the illusion of it.
You'd need a Dominant you can respect and trust that you know would not put you in actual danger or Read more… not take things too far or so on.
I know subs of whom any form of male contact would, ordinarily, be a limit to them - but they are expected to suck cock (or be sucked) for their Mistress whenever asked. That is CNC.
A savage beating with a least favourite toy. Disliked activities. Having your own personal favourite activities withheld - all are examples of CNC.
That, obviously, you'd want a Dominant for whom you'd want to do this for. And, also, a trust things won't be taken too far.
Like · 21.09.2019 20:43:20
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Shybuthorny609 Yes, that could work although I never struggle and protest so would still feel like role playing. I am naturally a compliant sub, that is my dilemma. Yes, that could work although I never struggle and protest so would still feel like role playing. I am naturally a compliant sub, that is my dilemma.
LikeBournemouthmaster2se · 21.09.2019 20:35:13
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  • 05.08.2019 20:42:25
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Animals VS civilization

Well ... if it it was me there would initially be a period of intense pain releasing play with plenty of edging followed by slow sensual kissing plenty of unrushed oral and tantric love making

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