I've been enjoying exploring my kink side for the last 2+ years and I value connecting with like-minded people whether it be for friends or more. I believe this is a never ending journey of self-discovery to which you can find different interests and desires within different connections with others.
I've been told I have a great ability to adapt to varying lovers and catering to their needs. For this reason, my intimate encounters with women don't need to necessarily be dom/sub. I simply enjoy the touch and connection one can have with another person they are attracted to, and I don't believe in moulding someone into what you desire. Let the connection flow naturally and see where it takes you.
From my perspective, the sub is the one that holds the power. They set the boundaries and decide how far they like to be pushed. I have a lot of respect for submissives and do not take a woman's submission to me for granted. Aftercare is also very important.
Being submissive is something I've tried and it does not interest me. What I love is dominating women, within their boundaries, whether it be as a daddy, dom or top. I enjoy giving pleasure if you communicate clearly as to what turns you on, this makes the process a lot easier.
I'm in a poly relationship with naughtygingersub. She prefers a daddy dom/little girl dynamic, with psychological control, which I enjoy. She describes me as manly but with that "dad vibe" of being soft and loving underneath. However, as discipline and pain are not her things, this is an aspect I have a little experience in and would like to find a woman I could explore it with further.
We also enjoy dating females together and having intimate threesomes that may include bondage, sensory deprivation, toys, spanking, flogging, role-plays and more. We are both very respectful of boundaries and like to communicate clearly likes, dislikes and expectations of play. Providing aftercare and spending time together in a platonic way is also important to us, but that's dependent on your desires beyond sex as well.