Looking for a Kinky companion to tie up flog and generally enjoy life with
Desires and Fantasies
dark ally's hair locked in my fist and a hand around a throat sounds like a good start
unless you're in a high protocol D/s relationship , i dont see the problem with a submissive jumping their dominants and passionately innitiating a session. I personally like pasionate subs and i do love it when they start something, despite common misconceptions we Dom's aren't mind readers so Read more… don't always know when a subs in the mood :) we like communication and if that communication is getting straddled and passionately kissed i know i'd be down for that :)
if you're 24/7 Gorean or High protocol i can see an issue with it but i'm not into either of them in a full time role nore are a lot so you should be fine as long as you have openly told them this is something you enjoy
have you tried meeting prospective Dom/mes for coffee a few times first no play or anything just a coffee and chat get to know each other in person and what each of you are after,
online people can be anything in person it's a bit harder to hide ones self so easier to get a gauge.
@Muffsparkle maybe he's talking about the other lips and the op chases contortionists