Personal details

Gender Transgender
Age 28
Status Single
Height 176cm
Weight 56kg
Body shape Slim
Eye colour Green
Hair colour Brown
Hair length Short
Orientation Gay
Pubic Hair Shaved
Body hair None
Zodiac signs Scorpio
Glasses
Smoker
Tattoos
Piercings

About me

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Description

Wish there were choice to specify, but I'm a transguy, FTM, cboy, etc. Currently finishing a degree for gaming and software development in Columbus, OH. I like jogging, walking, watching Let's Plays and listening to really loud, cringey Synthwave/Retrowave. I read a lot. I love Star Wars and Star Trek.

I do not drink or smoke tobacco; I hardly drink caffeine. If you're looking for someone who shares health goals and an active lifestyle without drugs, or someone to help you get on and stay on that course, I'm happy to help.

Fantasies

I'm a sub. Of the almost-Dom-like personality variety. I'm really not very interested in being a Switch, however. I'm more interested in being restrained and gagged, as that's the only way to make me behave. ;P

I don't want to dress you in panties, frills or force-fem you. I don't have any interest in pegging. I'm not into femininity: female, male or expressions of which by any other gender. There's absolutely nothing wrong with these kinks, I'm just not the guy to fulfill these fantasies for you. I'm attracted to masculinity, confidence an dominant desires.

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Skoyko
icon-wio Skoyko wrote something in the forum
  • 18.05.2018 12:45:15
  • Trans people (28)
  • Columbus
  • Single
FTMs, MTFs, Genderqueers and Chasers.

Oof, that's disheartening. D;
Thanks for your responses, guys.

Skoyko
icon-wio Skoyko wrote something in the forum
  • 17.05.2018 13:29:20
  • Trans people (28)
  • Columbus
  • Single
FTMs, MTFs, Genderqueers and Chasers.

Potentially this thread should be moved out of this forum and into another. Please let me know if that's the case. I just wasn't sure where to place it...

Skoyko
icon-wio Skoyko created a topic in BDSM Forum
FTMs, MTFs, Genderqueers and Chasers.
Help me understand why people who are sexually attracted to transpersons are called chasers, and why it's a bad thing.
I've had the experience now on multiple occasions to find someone to have circled back to my profile repeatedly, and messaging them to find out that they'd been too scared to Read more…contact me due to fear of being labeled a chaser.
Why is it not okay to sexualize the transbody? I sexualize the cisgender male body. Is that a bad thing?
I don't at all mean to offend any fellow transgenders. But... there again, why should it be offensive? This an explicitly sexual site, made for kinks and fetishes. Sometimes an entire body is a kink for someone. (For instance: big muscle heads do it for me.) But that doesn't mean that the mind owning the body is being disregarded, does it? At least, it hasn't been in my experience. So I must have a very different experience then, that's the conclusion I've come to.
What experience have other transpersons had wherein this has been a bad thing? It's so much more often that the transbody is hated. Why is it bad to be appreciated, even if it's a work in progress? Or even if you don't intend to change? I know I'm going to receive some flak about this, and that's okay. I genuinely want to know what's going on with this, and what downsides there are.
LikeAcidic, MuffSparkle, JLOC · 5 Replies
3SumQueen
3SumQueen Most people sexualise me for having tattoos, they don't consider what i want and just see me as someone who fits into their fetish or sexual preference for someone who has tattoos. It's completely unflattering and offensive because i didn't have these tattoos for them personally nor to be Read more… sexualised (was in a long term relationship when i had most of them done for me).
I'm disabled now and keep that to myself as i thought it would be a fetish for many guys but it actually puts them off despite them not even asking/knowing how it affects me. Fetish is a very tedious area i feel, so many people do objectify in their own way and go for the sex angle first over everything else. It's pretty much the same everywhere though and the tattoos are not being removed so i have to deal with it or ignore it. If you're only looking for sex though that has it's advantages as objectification is shallow and i have my own objectifications and can fulfil them easily.
Like · 19.05.2018 15:19:04
Skoyko
Skoyko ➦Skoyko quote eyemblacksheep:❝Slate did a really good article a while ago, but sadly external links aren't allowed so you'll have to look it up.
But effectively, chasers are fetisishing and objectifying trans bodies rather than it being an attraction.❞
I found the article you were talking about, Read more… and it brings up a good point that I hadn't thought of. It might be *my* experience as a transman to have met nice chasers that are into my body and also my personality, but as always, women have it sh**tier.
➦Skoyko quote MisterKBDJ:❝... but I know people who are attracted to these people because they 'chose to chang' to fit that beauty standard. ❞
Oof, that's disheartening. D;
Thanks for your responses, guys.
Like · 18.05.2018 12:45:15
MisterKBDJ
MisterKBDJ I think a lot of people are scared cause they think that they are gonna get labeled as something they aren't, Like for example I am attracted to transmen and transwomen if they already fulfill my standards of beauty but I know people who are attracted to these people because they 'chose to chang' to fit that beauty standard. I think a lot of people are scared cause they think that they are gonna get labeled as something they aren't, Like for example I am attracted to transmen and transwomen if they already fulfill my standards of beauty but I know people who are attracted to these people because they 'chose to chang' to fit that beauty standard.
Like · 17.05.2018 23:00:03
Skoyko
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  • 17.05.2018 12:32:28
  • Trans people (28)
  • Columbus
  • Single
What types of kinksters are you hoping to meet here on Fetish.com?
Guys who are into holding the leash, even when it's tugged pretty hard.
Skoyko
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  • 17.05.2018 12:32:28
  • Trans people (28)
  • Columbus
  • Single
When did you discover you were kinky? Tell us about your journey through kink and BDSM.
I'm so fresh I still smell like the ink in a new textbook. I've had few sexual encounters, and only one of them was kinky; it left me aching for me, so. Here I am. xD
Skoyko
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  • 17.05.2018 12:32:28
  • Trans people (28)
  • Columbus
  • Single
What qualities are most important for you in a relationship?( BDSM, kinky or vanilla)
Humor, commitment, dedication and a strong sense of their own purpose in life.
Skoyko
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  • 17.05.2018 12:32:28
  • Trans people (28)
  • Columbus
  • Single
What BDSM skills do you have (i.e. rope bondage, play piercing, etc)? What are you interested in learning more about or get better at?
Sensual pleasure. I can work muscles into total relaxation in minutes. I'd like to learn more about latex gear, rope and other sorts of bondage, and a few other things you'll have to ask me about...
Skoyko
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  • Columbus
  • Single
D/s: Dom/me or sub? Top or bottom? Caregiver or little? Owner or slave? Do you switch or are you unsure?
Power sub.... ? Secret sub? Brat? Unsure. x___x
Skoyko
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  • Trans people (28)
  • Columbus
  • Single
What turns your kinky brain and body on?
In theory.... Getting into heated discussions, teasing and being coy until my partner can't wait to just shut me up and force me to kneel.
Skoyko
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  • 17.05.2018 12:32:28
  • Trans people (28)
  • Columbus
  • Single
Are you out or in-the-closet about your kinks, sexual orientation or gender identity? Why?
Way out. I'm Female-to-Male, with ten years of reconstruction and hormone replacement, but I'm not as serious about gender as most transgenders I know. I love having no tits or penis. I'm 'aerodynamic', with no bits of flesh hanging off of me and a fantastic clit that Read more… promises pretty much constant, ridiculously hard orgasms whenever I want, even without touch. I don't consider you a chaser if you're sexually drawn to this. I appreciate my body being appreciated. I can help explain to you why so many other transpeople feel that it's wrong to want someone for being trans, though. Feel free to ask any of the awkward, potentially rude questions that you haven't been able to ask before.
Skoyko
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  • 17.05.2018 12:32:28
  • Trans people (28)
  • Columbus
  • Single
Is physical appearance or fashion important for you and your kinks?
Yes? I'm not sure. My ideal man is taller, bigger than me; awkward, moody, with slight asymmetry of the face. I love scars I like being held by someone stronger.
Skoyko
icon-wio Skoyko has updated their profile description
  • 17.05.2018 12:23:44
  • Trans people (28)
  • Columbus
  • Single
Wish there were choice to specify, but I'm a transguy, FTM, cboy, etc. Currently finishing a degree for gaming and software development in Columbus, OH. I like jogging, walking, watching Let's Plays and listening to really loud, cringey Synthwave/Retrowave. I read a lot. I love Star Wars and Star Read more… Trek.
I do not drink or smoke tobacco; I hardly drink caffeine. If you're looking for someone who shares health goals and an active lifestyle without drugs, or someone to help you get on and stay on that course, I'm happy to help.
Skoyko
icon-wio Skoyko has updated their desires and fantasies info
  • 17.05.2018 12:23:44
  • Trans people (28)
  • Columbus
  • Single
I'm a sub. Of the almost-Dom-like personality variety. I'm really not very interested in being a Switch, however. I'm more interested in being restrained and gagged, as that's the only way to make me behave. ;P
I don't want to dress you in panties, frills or force-fem you. I don't have any Read more… interest in pegging. I'm not into femininity: female, male or expressions of which by any other gender. There's absolutely nothing wrong with these kinks, I'm just not the guy to fulfill these fantasies for you. I'm attracted to masculinity, confidence an dominant desires.
Skoyko
icon-wio Skoyko has updated their desires and fantasies info
  • 09.05.2018 22:45:37
  • Trans people (28)
  • Columbus
  • Single
I'm still exploring. Up until just recently I had thought of myself as a sub or Bottom... Now I'm not so sure.
I adore uniforms, tight-fitting leather gloves, hoods, masks, handcuffs and shiny boots. I love latex, rubber and leather, but I've never been able to play. Suuuper interested in Read more… getting that set up when I have the funds. I love seeing bodies in shiny, tight, liquid black. I love the squeak of rubber and the smell of leather. @__@
I am only attracted to males and masculine identities, that much I can tell you. Wish I could learn to love boobies but I just can't. :[
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
(These results are just as confusing to me as they probably are to you.)
98% Brat
98% Brat tamer
67% Primal (Prey)
66% Dominant
61% Submissive
59% Degrader
59% Switch
57% Rigger
56% Rope bunny
55% Vanilla
Skoyko
icon-wio Skoyko has updated their profile description
  • 08.05.2018 17:47:59
  • Trans people (28)
  • Columbus
  • Single
Wish there were choice to specify, but I'm a transguy, FTM, cboy, etc. Currently finishing a degree for gaming and software development in Columbus, OH. I like jogging, walking, watching Let's Plays and listening to really loud, cringey Synthwave/Retrowave. I read a lot. I love Star Wars and Star Read more… Trek.
I'm highly loyal, and monogamous. I don't share. I'm ultimately looking for a long-term commitment, but I don't mind chatting and helping out those who are lonely, in need of a sympathetic ear or who simply want to nerd out.

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