About me
Interested in:
I’m looking for:
- Kinky Dates
- LTR (relationship)
- Events & Places
- BDSM Lovers
- Pic Exchange
Description
Hey everyone.
I am a 39y/o male looking for someone special and relatively discrete to build a life with, both vanilla and kink, although I'm open to the FWB area too but NOT ONS.
I am a switch, but I'm looking for my sub/slave to cherish and use. I'm very open minded, and have had a few D/s relationships in my time which have blended vanilla life and our own dynamic. I believe in limits, building a real life (as opposed to the porn version) and SSC. I also adore cuckquean, TPE, CNC, ***/degredation etc.
I was a young widower, and single dad of 3 for the last 8years but now they are older, I'm missing that special someone.
Don't be shy, I don't bite...yet 😉
Limits
Anything illegal. Anything against your limits. Anything that lacks discretion around NC people. I don't do permanent damage, although I do enjoy piercings/tats/lash marks with discussion.
My roles & archetype
My kinks & fetishes
I like:
- 24/7
- Armpit Fetish
- Blindfolds
- BDSM
- BDSM Branding
- BDSM Collar
- Begging
- Bondage
- Bondage Bed
- Bondage Cuffs
- Bondage Harness
- Bondage Cage
- Bondage Hood
- Chains
- Chastity
- Chastity Belt
- Corsets
- Cunnilingus
- Lingerie Fetish
- Edging
- Restraints
- Fetish Wear
- FFM Threesome
- Fingering
- Foot Fetish
- Torturer - Captive Prisoner
- Handcuffs
- Handjobs
- Humiliation
- Kinky Sex
- Kissing
- Body Modification
- Masturbation
- Oral Sex
- Orgasm Control
- Pee Desperation
- Polyamory
- Porn
- Car Sex
- Sex Toys
- Slave Training
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I often find they shy/nervous Dommes to be the best ones. It's so easy to "go wrong" or go too far with a lot of this stuff. Being nervous and a bit shy is a huge green flag for me.
The only way to "overcome" it, or be more secure with it, is communication. Start with a conversation with your Read more… partner(s) about limits, boundaries, what you both want/need from it. Could start with just in the bedroom stuff, rather than jumping into a lifestyle.
Once things have been clearly discussed, and you're both happy with what activities you will have control over, and acceptable punishments for infractions are clear, you will find your confidence grow.
End of the day, these lifestyles are about both people being happy and secure, and that only happens with communication and trust.
But enjoy your adventure, it's magical when it comes together and works🥰
I am a 39y/o male looking for someone special and relatively discrete to build a life with, both vanilla and kink, although I'm open to the FWB area too but NOT ONS.
I am a switch, but I'm looking for my sub/slave to cherish and use. I'm very open minded, and have had a few D/s Read more… relationships in my time which have blended vanilla life and our own dynamic. I believe in limits, building a real life (as opposed to the porn version) and SSC. I also adore cuckquean, TPE, CNC, ***/degredation etc.
I was a young widower, and single dad of 3 for the last 8years but now they are older, I'm missing that special someone.
Don't be shy, I don't bite...yet 😉
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