Personal details

Gender Man
Age 37
Status Single
Zodiac signs Libra

About me

Interested in:

I’m looking for:

  • BDSM Lovers
  • Kinky Dates
  • Friends
  • NSA (no strings...)
  • LTR (relationship)
  • Networking


Roll up, roll up and welcome to my profile, please step inside. Doms please take a seat; Subs/Slaves please take the appropriate position on the floor; Switches and Fetishist Kinksters feel free to choose. Now I think that covers everybody, hope you’re all sitting comfortably.

I can understand that people reading the above section may think I’m not serious due to my humour, but rest assured I am serious and genuine; I just like to be approachable and to put people at ease with a little witty humour - soft I guess some people would say, but as the old saying goes, “never judge a book by its cover”.

I discovered this lifestyle by accident some time ago and found it to be a piece of that missing jigsaw puzzle, clicking perfectly into
place. I’ve always been a dominant person but never realised how dominant till I started this journey.

So far I’ve found I enjoy the mental/control side; it really interests me - the use of rules/protocols, and the anticipation on a sub's face of not knowing of
what will come next.

As for the physical side, well the sound of a finely administered spank is always enjoyable, hearing those squeals and shrieks of pleasure/pain by my hand, I’ll leave that there for now as you can see in my fetish list below what else I enjoy.

For me it’s not just about beating a sub into submission, but building that bond between a Dom and Sub which can be such a wonderful thing; that total openness of following and explorering your true desires.

In all I’m looking to make new like-minded friends and discuss common interests, but also to maybe find that special sub.

One thing I am very keen on exploring more is rope work, after seeing a number of photos of other people’s work which inspired me to try myself, so if there is anyone out there who would like to give me a few hints or tips or just cares to chat feel free to message.

Please note, no slave labour was used in the making of this profile. gives you… is like an appetizing smorgasbord in Southend-on-Sea with lots of hot guys to meet up with. Have a look around first if you prefer to see who’s around, or if you know what you want, search by selecting the right category "Kinky Dating”. Nobody stays alone here for long! has tons going on!

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